Once you've "played the game" for a while, you find that encountering a former or current lover is highly amusing. As a husband, I've even had dinner with my wife's lover and his wife on more than one occasion. After that first encounter, we reached a point where we were openly talking about it and his wife was supportive. I let out a huge sigh of relief. Of course, while we were chatting with them, he did not say anything about what he told me at the bar earlier - that "nothing he'd ever experienced topped what it felt like to be inside my wife's vagina." He then gave me some details. Like I didn't know. It takes a while to reach this point with a wife's lovers, though. Some cannot bring themselves to talk about it with me, and I respect their wishes. It's enough to know he'll be in her again and again, leading to great satisfaction for all of us.