My Wife, I need help with next step

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Me and my wife, we are 28 yo, 4 years after wedding.

For over a year I have noticed on her phone that my wife likes to watch porn videos in the group or threesome category.

About two months ago, in bed during sex, I started mentioning to her about an extra man in the bed, which immediately turned her on. it was the first time she had an orgasm so quickly.

Since then, I often tell her in bed how other men would like to taste her and that she needs an extra cock to satisfy her.

About a week ago, after drinking alcohol, while licking her pussy, I mentioned a lot about a threesome with an additional man. Mentioning to her that her pussy needed another cock to satisfy it, at one point while she was moaning I asked her if she wanted another cock in bed and if she wanted a threesome with another man so that we could fuck her, she replied acceptingly.

Additionally, she asked me who I would like to fuck her with, after giving her my friend's name, she gave me the name of another friend and said this one would be better.

What should I think about it? What next step should I take? The last time it was under the slight influence of alcohol.



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A drink or two gives her the implied permission to tell her true desires.
Consider telling the other guy your wife is interested in know more about him. Get together for drinks .
Then offer to give her a massage where both of you massage her. Now she is just getting a massage. again implied permission. Then go slow one guy on each arm. each leg ect. Take 30-35 min before you touch any sexy parts. This builds her excitement. she will be ready and willing to go further.
Warm room, nice smelling massage oil, soft music. Tantra massage music ect. Tell me how it goes. this always worked for me. Did five couples wife this way.
 
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I would ask myself if the fantasy still was good, and if, why rush it? You guys are still young. Next, To start with, I would never do it with someone we knew, I would not do it in our home or his home, and also make sure both had the right to abort at any time, and be clear it is okay no matter what.



We still enjoy our fantasies, and that's why I think it is healthy to keep it that way for now, unless a good night out leads us to a "one night stand", that can be something we can leave behind us, if it was not as expected.
 
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I didn't see him stroking her thigh, she told me that herself. Maybe she was checking my reaction? To make things more interesting, she was wearing a dress so he touched her bare skin on her thigh.
women know their men, they keep testing their men with the ultimate goal being conflict avoidance. Most importantly, women will "minimize" certain actions to avoid triggering the husband. what that really means is the guy felt her pussy to amplify her desires., drive her wild.
And in all candor, that guy has already dropped the hammer on your wife, a long time ago. that move he made, is the type of move of a guy who already had sex with that woman. of course the above is my opinion but just dont be shocked if it ever comes out.
 
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Thank you for your advice, in less than two weeks we will be going out on the weekend with my friend and wife. After drinking alcohol in the city, we are going to return home, our friend stays for the night.

We will definitely drink alcohol at home, what should I do? Go to ...... in the bedroom and leave them or take the dog for a walk? How do I initialize this?

My wife knows that I am very turned on by an additional lover, in bed during sex I have often emphasized that she needs an additional cock, which turns her on very much. I also know that she fantasizes about group sex.
Hoi daar mensen. Ze ziet er lekker uit hoor. Ik ben een Bull en 'wit'. Heb ook een maatje, is ook Bull maar 'zwart'. Ik lees dat ze vaak porno kijkt. Misschien is ze ook wel in voor GB? Daar heb ik ook connecties voor. Lijkt je dat wat? De gedachte om toe te kijken terwijl zij...
 
I agree with the two comments regarding it being a friend. A friend for the first time can be risky. It can add a lot of complications you might not expect. Someone you don't know would be easier to break off with if necessary. Maybe after you guys are more experienced and understand your limits better, then bringing in a friend would be less risky. That's just my opinion.
I do agree with Little devil make it someone you can say good bye to with out other friends asking why
 
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Hi,
Me and my wife, we are 28 yo, 4 years after wedding.

For over a year I have noticed on her phone that my wife likes to watch porn videos in the group or threesome category.

About two months ago, in bed during sex, I started mentioning to her about an extra man in the bed, which immediately turned her on. it was the first time she had an orgasm so quickly.

Since then, I often tell her in bed how other men would like to taste her and that she needs an extra cock to satisfy her.

About a week ago, after drinking alcohol, while licking her pussy, I mentioned a lot about a threesome with an additional man. Mentioning to her that her pussy needed another cock to satisfy it, at one point while she was moaning I asked her if she wanted another cock in bed and if she wanted a threesome with another man so that we could fuck her, she replied acceptingly.

Additionally, she asked me who I would like to fuck her with, after giving her my friend's name, she gave me the name of another friend and said this one would be better.

What should I think about it? What next step should I take? The last time it was under the slight influence of alcohol.



below is a photo of my young wife
Are you absolutely sure you both want it ? Sure it’s hot, but do you want to indulge that part of yourselves, or other parts ?
 
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Nothing has happened so far that I know of.

But she hasn't given me her pussy in almost two weeks, she's been teasing me. Neither she nor I had an orgasm.

Yesterday we had a friend over for a drink. Before his visit, she took a shower, shaved her pussy and put on nice lingerie.

The three of us stayed up until midnight and drank alcohol. At midnight I went to bed, leaving them alone. I could hear them through the wall, laughing and talking to each other.

Later I heard that they played a game of "what do you prefer" but in an erotic style.
Questions like "Would you rather give someone a cunnilingus or have someone give you a blowjob?"

They had fun like that until about 2 a.m. Our friend stayed overnight and slept in another room. In the morning, my woman took a shower and changed her panties to fresh ones.

Below is what I saw on the panties, they were fully soaked, I don't know if this is her pussy secretions or something else?

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women know their men, they keep testing their men with the ultimate goal being conflict avoidance. Most importantly, women will "minimize" certain actions to avoid triggering the husband. what that really means is the guy felt her pussy to amplify her desires., drive her wild.
And in all candor, that guy has already dropped the hammer on your wife, a long time ago. that move he made, is the type of move of a guy who already had sex with that woman. of course the above is my opinion but just dont be shocked if it ever comes out.
I think you're partly right. He makes her pussy wet which is strange.
 
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Nothing has happened so far that I know of.

But she hasn't given me her pussy in almost two weeks, she's been teasing me. Neither she nor I had an orgasm.

Yesterday we had a friend over for a drink. Before his visit, she took a shower, shaved her pussy and put on nice lingerie.

The three of us stayed up until midnight and drank alcohol. At midnight I went to bed, leaving them alone. I could hear them through the wall, laughing and talking to each other.

Later I heard that they played a game of "what do you prefer" but in an erotic style.
Questions like "Would you rather give someone a cunnilingus or have someone give you a blowjob?"

They had fun like that until about 2 a.m. Our friend stayed overnight and slept in another room. In the morning, my woman took a shower and changed her panties to fresh ones.

Below is what I saw on the panties, they were fully soaked, I don't know if this is her pussy secretions or something else?

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Do they smell like cum?
 
Hi,
Me and my wife, we are 28 yo, 4 years after wedding.

For over a year I have noticed on her phone that my wife likes to watch porn videos in the group or threesome category.

About two months ago, in bed during sex, I started mentioning to her about an extra man in the bed, which immediately turned her on. it was the first time she had an orgasm so quickly.

Since then, I often tell her in bed how other men would like to taste her and that she needs an extra cock to satisfy her.

About a week ago, after drinking alcohol, while licking her pussy, I mentioned a lot about a threesome with an additional man. Mentioning to her that her pussy needed another cock to satisfy it, at one point while she was moaning I asked her if she wanted another cock in bed and if she wanted a threesome with another man so that we could fuck her, she replied acceptingly.

Additionally, she asked me who I would like to fuck her with, after giving her my friend's name, she gave me the name of another friend and said this one would be better.

What should I think about it? What next step should I take? The last time it was under the slight influence of alcohol.



below is a photo of my young wife
Hi Sean and Jennifer here.

If this is something you both want to pursue, have conversation about it without any alcohol and not in bed. If you both are willing after that conversation explore by using a lifelike dildo on her and watching cuckold and threesome porn together. Once that is a regular part of you sex play start talking about how you want it to happen -- on vacation, in your home, someone you know a stranger...
 
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