I feel my wife Dani my beautiful wife of 27 years is finally so close to allowing herself some fun and fulfil my fantasy of pleasuring her with another man at the same time MFM.
Approx. 2 years ago I mentioned to Dani that the idea of watching another man please her before I join in and gave her the experience of two men at once.
Initially there was the normal objections and questions of;
- Do I only want this so I could ...... with another woman?
- Do I need a Hall Pass?
- But it would be cheating.
- It isn't normal.
Anyway you all know he questions and objections I'm talking about.
After reassuring my wife that it is purely about her pleasure and wanting to take that to a whole other level.
The many many conversations began and progressed from:
- I'd only be doing it for you (which I said I could never allow)
- Confirming which one of my mates she would want to fuck.
- Allowing me to share photos and the fantasy with strangers (Thats where I found this awesome sight).
- Along with many other progressive behaviours.
Fast forward to recent times.
We have set up a couples profile on a swingers site and initially started out with both of us talking to other men who showed interest in Dani until she lost interest and no longer wanted to talk with them, but would sit with me while I did (Same thing happened on this site also).
About a month ago, Dani started to answer a few questions again and now I feel we are heading forward with fantastic speed.
In the past month Dani has become much much more daring and done the following;
- Told me she likes the idea of another man and I pleasuring her together.
- Lifted her dress and flashed her panties to me while walking through a busy carpark.
- Role playing much more during sex.
- Finally admitting that she wants to be fucked by another man and I at the same time but is still worried she won't go through with it.
- Getting much more flirty with other men online and sending tasteful sexy pics.
Last night was a real change of pace an after chatting with a potential gent, (Lets call him Dave) who Dani has been building a connection with.
When we got into I told Dani that I want her to message Dave while I go down on her. There was a few giggles but she said ok.
Dani was reading me messages while I was licking her and with perfect timing Dave asked what we were now doing?
I suggested that she be 100% with him in detail as it would turn him on, Dani giggled and said no I couldn't do that.
With some reassurance Dani sent the reply and to my surprise eve agreed to my suggestion we send a photo.
The message exchange became fast and steamy and as I began to slide my cock into Dani from behind I suggested we should surprise Dave and send him another photo of us now. Dani quickly agreed!
I almost came right then and there but managed to hold on a little longer, not too much tho hahaha.
As we laid back in bed afterwards Dave asks if we would like a photo of what he is packing and can bring to the table, but before we could respond he suggested a video call as well.
We thought why not it will take some of the awkwardness away when we do first meet in person.
The video call comes though and Dani is blushing and giggling like she is 16 again, Dave waves and smiles before lowering the camera to his crotch where he is obviously already hard cock is outlined and restrained.
Pulling his cock free he starts stroking it and telling Dani that this is what she has done to him tonight.
Dani is speechless and concentrating on the phone screen.
When the video call finishes a short time later Dani says "OMG I can't believe we just did that".
I asked if she would like to organise a meet with Dave and she said "Yes but I'm not going to ...... with him on the first meet".
That's ok I reassure her once again and gave her a long kiss on the lips.
Hopefully today we will organise a meet up with Dave in a cafe and the banter will continue to flow until then.
For anyone who is asking "how do I convince my partner to ...... with another man?"
The answer is simple, Plant the seed, let it grow by making your relationship the strongest you can and your partner feel completely safe with you no matter what.
Then just encourage her forward without pressure or too much focus as that can and usually will shut everything down!
Above all Be patient and Supportive!!!
Approx. 2 years ago I mentioned to Dani that the idea of watching another man please her before I join in and gave her the experience of two men at once.
Initially there was the normal objections and questions of;
- Do I only want this so I could ...... with another woman?
- Do I need a Hall Pass?
- But it would be cheating.
- It isn't normal.
Anyway you all know he questions and objections I'm talking about.
After reassuring my wife that it is purely about her pleasure and wanting to take that to a whole other level.
The many many conversations began and progressed from:
- I'd only be doing it for you (which I said I could never allow)
- Confirming which one of my mates she would want to fuck.
- Allowing me to share photos and the fantasy with strangers (Thats where I found this awesome sight).
- Along with many other progressive behaviours.
Fast forward to recent times.
We have set up a couples profile on a swingers site and initially started out with both of us talking to other men who showed interest in Dani until she lost interest and no longer wanted to talk with them, but would sit with me while I did (Same thing happened on this site also).
About a month ago, Dani started to answer a few questions again and now I feel we are heading forward with fantastic speed.
In the past month Dani has become much much more daring and done the following;
- Told me she likes the idea of another man and I pleasuring her together.
- Lifted her dress and flashed her panties to me while walking through a busy carpark.
- Role playing much more during sex.
- Finally admitting that she wants to be fucked by another man and I at the same time but is still worried she won't go through with it.
- Getting much more flirty with other men online and sending tasteful sexy pics.
Last night was a real change of pace an after chatting with a potential gent, (Lets call him Dave) who Dani has been building a connection with.
When we got into I told Dani that I want her to message Dave while I go down on her. There was a few giggles but she said ok.
Dani was reading me messages while I was licking her and with perfect timing Dave asked what we were now doing?
I suggested that she be 100% with him in detail as it would turn him on, Dani giggled and said no I couldn't do that.
With some reassurance Dani sent the reply and to my surprise eve agreed to my suggestion we send a photo.
The message exchange became fast and steamy and as I began to slide my cock into Dani from behind I suggested we should surprise Dave and send him another photo of us now. Dani quickly agreed!
I almost came right then and there but managed to hold on a little longer, not too much tho hahaha.
As we laid back in bed afterwards Dave asks if we would like a photo of what he is packing and can bring to the table, but before we could respond he suggested a video call as well.
We thought why not it will take some of the awkwardness away when we do first meet in person.
The video call comes though and Dani is blushing and giggling like she is 16 again, Dave waves and smiles before lowering the camera to his crotch where he is obviously already hard cock is outlined and restrained.
Pulling his cock free he starts stroking it and telling Dani that this is what she has done to him tonight.
Dani is speechless and concentrating on the phone screen.
When the video call finishes a short time later Dani says "OMG I can't believe we just did that".
I asked if she would like to organise a meet with Dave and she said "Yes but I'm not going to ...... with him on the first meet".
That's ok I reassure her once again and gave her a long kiss on the lips.
Hopefully today we will organise a meet up with Dave in a cafe and the banter will continue to flow until then.
For anyone who is asking "how do I convince my partner to ...... with another man?"
The answer is simple, Plant the seed, let it grow by making your relationship the strongest you can and your partner feel completely safe with you no matter what.
Then just encourage her forward without pressure or too much focus as that can and usually will shut everything down!
Above all Be patient and Supportive!!!
