Its a natural reaction for her to feel insecure that if she plays with another man, you will think, well i can take a lover too. So is, "you dont love me" and a host of other negative reactions and sayings.
The only way to counter this is by being open and honest with her, tell her how you feel and what you enjoy about her plays. The simple fact too is if you wanted a lover you would have one, regardless of what she does. You know she wouldnt like this and tell her its not what you want and never have.
My young cuckoldress said the same when she confessed to two affairs, she then insisted that if it was what "i wanted", then i should find her a lover and be involved in someway, i knew that what she really meant, this way i could never comeback to her and accuse her of being unfaithful, when i had arranged and been there could i?
She resolved any hangups she had in her mind, driving her kink by covertly making me unattractive to other women, firstly asking me to wear female knickers, then painting my toe nails pink, advancing to a cage, only she had a key to....then continuing over the following years she semi feminising me, she found this very kinky that I live my sex life through hers and has said, i knew this was what you wanted really.
This showed me i was no longer her lover of choice and she now controlled my sexuality, what women would want an affair with a tall smart masculine man only to find he was wearing nicer knickers than she, obviously they can be removed before hand but pink painted toe nails, a locked collar and cage?
But really its all about complete trust in each other, knowing what the other wants, their desires and why and what they get out of this. However it is still difficult for a females mind to understand why a loving husband would want her to do this and understand why, its not a normal thing in a relationship or society.
In meeting any chap as a possible lover, we have always done this together, then after a while i smile at her and leave them to chat, this gives her my permission as we all know why we are meeting and they can then chat knowing i approve.
The question you need to ask yourself before embarking on this LS is, is this REALLY what you really want? Once you start if she enjoys it its impossible to then try stop her wanting a lover, a man who will turn her on more than you do, is that a reality you can accept?
