My husband wants me to fuck another man

[Courage2Go4it]

If you are totally against if then don't. If NOT, just try to relax and enjoy, who knows you might find out you are missing out!

Agreed. You need to be very careful. It's not something to be taken lightly. After 16 years of marriage and countless "suggestive roll plays", my beautiful wife finally allowed another man to seduce her. He was very persuasive. (Or at least his over sized penis was.) Up until that point I was by far the "best" she had ever had. Not anymore. I thought it would be a couple times exciting thing, but they've had sex once or twice a week ever since. At first she was very afraid to tell me how much bigger and better he was. But she finally just opened up. She couldn't bring herself to tell me in person, so she took a video. She asked me to watch it all way through on my own. It was like 5 hours long. And not just sex... I'm talking legs shaking, squirting, bed soaking sex... Now, I am a very confident man. Attractive and well off finantially... very confident of my sexual abilities, etc, etc... but that was very humbling. It was the first time I've really ever been insecure. To be candid, it completely changed my perspective of my sexual prowess. Like I said, they've continued having sex once or twice a week since then. That was 12 yrs ago. I can't say that it was bad for our marriage. Pretty sure it helped it. Maybe even saved it. I don't know. But it most certainly changed it. Now I'm not any kind of a horn dog. Just a normal guy that appreciated (looked) when an attractive woman might walk by, etc... but since this started, my wife even commented to me that she never sees me "looking" anymore. I guess I get all my "fantasy fulfillment quota" (and then some) from my wife. ( There are quite a few studies showing that the Infidelity rates of men within hotwifing relationships is very low. near zero).

Anyway, I don't know what it will be like for you but like I said, you need to be careful. Sounds like you've already started down the path a bit mentally... and it can be amazing. But for sure it's not to be taken lightly.

 

[ilovetowatchcs]

I remember the night I told my wife I was having a strong fantasy to see her blow another guy. And I wanted to watch her get fucked doggy style. And she was not the least bit offended, or hurt. She listened. And she agreed to think about doing it. And that's how it began - and to this day, I love her intensley.

 

[ride52]

My husband and I have been together for almost 13 years, he has recently told me this fantasy of him watching me being fucked by another man. I’m such a stick in the mud, I’m insecure of my body and very inexperienced. This has caused quite the argument in our life, I’m trying to understand how this works and what it means. Any advice anyone can give? I have no fantasy of my own, and I don’t usually have a high sex drive, but I do want to make him happy and fulfilled!

My advice is to give it some genuine thought, but don't feel pressured into anything that you're not 99% happy with. Naturally you want to please your man, but just remember..... You can't un-ring a bell. Be absolutely sure (both of you) before you commit.

 

[Aznhubby]

My husband and I have been together for almost 13 years, he has recently told me this fantasy of him watching me being fucked by another man. I’m such a stick in the mud, I’m insecure of my body and very inexperienced. This has caused quite the argument in our life, I’m trying to understand how this works and what it means. Any advice anyone can give? I have no fantasy of my own, and I don’t usually have a high sex drive, but I do want to make him happy and fulfilled!

Your husband obviously thinks you're hot, that is the reason why a husband wants to show off or share his wife. If you are curious about it.. go for it when the time is right for you

 

[CheshireDoc]

My husband and I have been together for almost 13 years, he has recently told me this fantasy of him watching me being fucked by another man. I’m such a stick in the mud, I’m insecure of my body and very inexperienced. This has caused quite the argument in our life, I’m trying to understand how this works and what it means. Any advice anyone can give? I have no fantasy of my own, and I don’t usually have a high sex drive, but I do want to make him happy and fulfilled!

Let me help! irrumatio@hotmail.com Ash xx

 

[NeedaDomInMI]

OP posted twice at end of October and last visited early February. Maybe it’s time to let this post drop to the bottom of the list until she is ready to re-engage.

 

[BBCinVT]

My husband and I have been together for almost 13 years, he has recently told me this fantasy of him watching me being fucked by another man. I’m such a stick in the mud, I’m insecure of my body and very inexperienced. This has caused quite the argument in our life, I’m trying to understand how this works and what it means. Any advice anyone can give? I have no fantasy of my own, and I don’t usually have a high sex drive, but I do want to make him happy and fulfilled!

did you finally take the plunge?

 

[widowedcuck]

The person that got us over the "Hump" in our discussion of my fantasy of showing off my sexy wife was the Actress Hyapatia Lee. Early in our dating Ms Lee emceed an event we attended. She bolster my then girlfriend by telling her how hot she was and how lucky I was. Years into our marriage we saw she was the featured performer at a club nearby. She entertained questions and comments after her performance. She shared personal experiences with my wife and encouraged her to get the most out of life for both her and I. Riding home in the backseat of a buddy, l denuded my wife and made love to her with thunderous climaxes from us both. My friend then talked his new bride into some fellatio. Thank you Hyapatia! I reiterated this thanks in a website she had been recently quoted in. Hope she got it!

 

[CONST65]

My husband and I have been together for almost 13 years, he has recently told me this fantasy of him watching me being fucked by another man. I’m such a stick in the mud, I’m insecure of my body and very inexperienced. This has caused quite the argument in our life, I’m trying to understand how this works and what it means. Any advice anyone can give? I have no fantasy of my own, and I don’t usually have a high sex drive, but I do want to make him happy and fulfilled!

Tell him.you want him.to take you put dinner and dancing wear something sexy
If a guy asks you to dance accept it ..Have a drink if you feel comfortable slow dance see how you fell.let your self go a little dancing clise you might get excited it couls bring out feelings .If you feel.it when you get home have intense sex with your husband.. It could lead to the both of you becoming more comfortable with sex outside of your marriage

 

[sameerdev]

My husband and I have been together for almost 13 years, he has recently told me this fantasy of him watching me being fucked by another man. I’m such a stick in the mud, I’m insecure of my body and very inexperienced. This has caused quite the argument in our life, I’m trying to understand how this works and what it means. Any advice anyone can give? I have no fantasy of my own, and I don’t usually have a high sex drive, but I do want to make him happy and fulfilled!

Try it mam if you want him happyand fulfilled. Maybe you do enjoy this movements and again and again wants it .because when a strenger touch your body so you would feel amazing then your husband.

 

[Sgt Ray]

It has to be something YOU want to try.
Don't be bullied into it.
The longer you discuss it, the better the
chance you'll try it.
Then you get to decided if its something
you enjoy/want to do.

 

[dickhurtz]

My husband and I have been together for almost 13 years, he has recently told me this fantasy of him watching me being fucked by another man. I’m such a stick in the mud, I’m insecure of my body and very inexperienced. This has caused quite the argument in our life, I’m trying to understand how this works and what it means. Any advice anyone can give? I have no fantasy of my own, and I don’t usually have a high sex drive, but I do want to make him happy and fulfilled!

to quote, compassionatedom;
"you should not do something simply to please another. If you are not an enthusiastic participant it will not be satisfying for anyone."

having said that, i understand how some women feel about their bodies. what's important is how other men see your body. if they like it, great.

if not, nothing lost. there are women in porn videos that weigh 300 lns or more. i'm not suggesting that is how you look.

i encouraged my wife make her own decision on who plays on her playground.

good luck.