Good advice, Bjc. The first time watching is a profound experience and you won't be able to stop precum, it feels good, but don't jack. Save your wood for the finale: entering your wife while she's still sexed up and her lover's cum is still warm inside her. "Seconds" is a special and loving gift from a wife or girlfriend and from that first time on you will always want to have sex with her that way. You have given her the gift of making love to, and having orgasms with another man - my wife and I found that our love for one another grew when we did this. Our sex life grew too! 😂😂😂I recommend talking about your fantasies and what you would love to see as much as you can during sex, let her see and feel how much the thought truly turns you on... When everyone is comfy it will happen. Been at this for over ten years! One tip, the first time it happens don't blow your load before they finish, or you will be bored and second guessing the idea while you patiently wait your turn! 🙂