Ha ha - that's the ultimate, isn't it! Like so many couples here, we were sometimes frustrated with all the planning and delay that comes with making it happen. True story, short version: wife and I were in our 30s, and we'd enjoyed a couple of mfms. And she was open to me simply watching her with the right guy. We were about to have sex one evening, we were enjoying foreplay and she was in what we called her "horny time." I was laying next to her, kissing her and slowing stroking my two middle fingers in her vagina. She said "if you were ever going to call someone, this would be the time. Can we get someone quick?" Well, it took about 45 minutes that night before he was there, but we soon learned to look for local guys for her. Sometimes all of the texts, phone calls, bar meetings and so on have to be dispensed with in the interest of immediate satisfaction. A couple of long-term local guys are the answer.
