Can anyone recommend any good bars in the Boston area for a new hotwife to dip her toe? We're not looking for a swinger/sex club but just a normal bar where a hot 40 something wife can casually meet and see how things go.
Mixx360 in Malden
It seems to be a hookup spot for cougars and 25-30ish men. Good amount of black men too, if that's what you're looking for. I found this place because my wife and I both liked clubbing when we were younger (now also in our 40s) but its too weird to go dancing in Boston when everyone else in the club is 20.
One half the building is an arcade / bowling alley, the other half is a bar and dance floor with live entertainment. I went twice and the crowd varied a lot depending on the entertainment. One time was an 80s cover band and it was a pretty mixed crowd with a lot of older people and couples. The other time there was a DJ and people didn't really start showing up until fairly late, around 10:30-11.
It struck me right off though that there were a lot of older women there. There was also a couple who clearly seemed to be looking for another man. The guy kept leaving his wife at the bar or sitting in the back while she went out to dance and she was around 40 and totally slutted up, showing a lot of cleavage. She chatted me up at one point at the bar but I was there with my wife.
My wife and I sat down at a table near the dance floor and pretty soon a younger black dude came over and started chatting us up, complimenting my wife. My wife wasn't interested unfortunately but later, the came up to me and gave me his number in case I wanted to "hang out" in the future lol... it seemed pretty clear he was looking for some hotwife action.
The main downside to this place is it seems to be pretty hit or miss in terms of the crowd (or whether people even show up) and doesn't get going until fairly late. I'm kind of surprised it isn't more popular. Maybe its better in the summer - I went in last year in the winter. Of course, they also chose the worst name I've ever heard for a bar/club lol...