When we first started, I absolutely refused to do it in our bed. For some reason I felt that was for only my hubby and I. I would have sex with my lovers on the couch, living room floor, hot tub, camper or hotel room but never in our bed. After a while and with more experience behind me, I thought WTH was I thinking?? After all that I've done why did this even matter. From then on our bed was the main area for fucking.