So I've had my first reply, from the local electrician, sorry but there's too much detail and information for me to share the email directly. He's seen the pic because he uses a 'preview pane' on his emails so it was 'right there in front of me' as he says and he claims to have now deleted it and basically just told me I should be more careful. But something about the email worries me, he calls me 'Mrs xxx' whereas whenever we've done business before he used my first name and the tone is almost formal which is weird.
But my bigger problem is what to do now, knowing he's seen in. He's due to do some garden lighting in a few weeks time and not only will I be ultra-embarrassed when I see him and go super blushing red but I have the worry that he might say something. He might for instance assume my husband knows about the pics and that would be very bad indeed. Feel like I need to email again but don't what I'd say
And that was the one I was slightly less worried about, still nothing from the guy at work (and I can see he is in work today on our instant message system))