Making a Hotwife!

[coastalkid]

Beyond the details of this getaway, my wife is very predictable. I can tell where I stand with her based upon how she treats me. If she is distant and disengaged with me, that’s when I should be concerned. When she is very aware of me and my needs, then we let the horses run. She has been very aware of my needs for quite some time and has been especially keen recently. While, I can’t predict the future, I do my best to manage the odds while we continue to play with fire.

This is a key development in your "gauging" your relationship. You've picked up on when to be proactive. It's extremely positive that she was firm about "no one on one" and everybody plays together. Things certainly feel different this time around. I can understand why you feel safe/confident about going forward. From the way you write it, it feels like she not so oblivious to your experience.

I know you're not expecting this but I think you'll earn points with your wife for having the courage and trust in her to make it work. She has to recognize that even being open to trying again with someone that nearly broke you up is a huge mental/emotional hurdle for you. It proves you have skin in the game and you're serious. I hope and pray she realizes this and makes an impression on her.

I'm strong proponent of your, "let the horses run" when things are in alignment and way fun. I'm looking forward to your take on everything afterwards! I think things are turning your way.

 

[Iahotwifeshusband]

Things continue to progress for a weekend meetup. There is some chance of a snowstorm in our area on Saturday which could impact travel. Hopefully weather doesn’t, he is willing to take on snowy roads for some sweet pussy!

 

[BigSkies]

Well Rick, if you need pictures in order to believe me, that’s your problem. My wife was 100% against pictures for a very long time for fear of the kids finding them. That being said, I do have a handful of photos and several videos from her recent play. I do not have her permission to share any photos or videos here. She isn’t an exhibitionist and doesn’t get anything out of guys commenting on her photos. I’m sharing my experience with others in hopes that it helps others.

it took over two years to even get pics and videos for my own pleasure. I’m not going to break her trust to convince you that it happened Sorry!

I would love to share her photos and get feedback on her sexy body and various adventures. If I ever get her permission, I will gladly share.

Quite right.... who cares what others think or believe, you're not beholden to or have anyting to prove to others...and trust is everything, once that goes, you're left with fuck all.... fair play to you, absolutely right! 👏

 

[Iahotwifeshusband]

Well, last weekend was a total bust. The timing of bad weather in our area was the perfect cock block. The forecast included the most snowfall we had seen all winter and the snow was supposed to fall in several rounds from Friday afternoon through Saturday evening. As I worked on Friday morning, I kept an eye on the forecast and while I was not pleased with the weather, I wasn't planning to give up easily. We had planned to get on the road early in the afternoon and based upon the forecast, we should have been able to make it to our destination prior to when the snow flew.

Shortly before noon, my sexy wife came to my home office and asked if I thought we should postpone the trip due to weather. I told her I didn't think it would be too bad and the weather where we were going wasn't going to be as bad as at home. Also, her friend was coming from the south and shouldn't have much weather to contend to either. Despite my attempts to stick to the original plan, my wife eventually decided that she wanted to avoid travelling in unknown weather.

And with that, our weekend turned from sex-fest to a sex free weekend at home working on home projects and hanging out with family. Not a horrible weekend by any means, but not the weekend I was hoping for.

 

[coastalkid]

Well, last weekend was a total bust. The timing of bad weather in our area was the perfect cock block. The forecast included the most snowfall we had seen all winter and the snow was supposed to fall in several rounds from Friday afternoon through Saturday evening. As I worked on Friday morning, I kept an eye on the forecast and while I was not pleased with the weather, I wasn't planning to give up easily. We had planned to get on the road early in the afternoon and based upon the forecast, we should have been able to make it to our destination prior to when the snow flew.

Shortly before noon, my sexy wife came to my home office and asked if I thought we should postpone the trip due to weather. I told her I didn't think it would be too bad and the weather where we were going wasn't going to be as bad as at home. Also, her friend was coming from the south and shouldn't have much weather to contend to either. Despite my attempts to stick to the original plan, my wife eventually decided that she wanted to avoid travelling in unknown weather.

And with that, our weekend turned from sex-fest to a sex free weekend at home working on home projects and hanging out with family. Not a horrible weekend by any means, but not the weekend I was hoping for.

Like a baseball game getting rained out! Sometimes the gods conspire against you.

 

[Iahotwifeshusband]

Like a baseball game getting rained out! Sometimes the gods conspire against you.

Exactly! I was so frustrated! (mentally and sexually)

 

[Iahotwifeshusband]

There have been several developments since my last post.

First, my wife was able to meet up with her regular fuck buddy last week after a couple weeks of conflicting schedules. He did a great job pleasing her before donating a generous load of cum deep inside her pussy. She then came home and was waiting for me to get home. Unfortunately, I got tied up running some errands and it was two hours after he filled her up before I got home. Despite the extended time, she was still very wet and still well lubed from his cum. Two hours of working myself up was just the ticket as my wife enjoyed my extra aggressive fuck.

Second, it’s likely going to be a bit before she plays again. (Including with me.). We both knew this was coming as she has a minor medical procedure coming up this week and will need to take it easy for 2-3 weeks. Since it has been on the schedule, she was planning to fuck both of us again right before her surgery so we minimize the sex free time. However, she threw a couple of curveballs at us. First, last week she decided to get her nipples pierced. While this wouldn’t prevent having sex, it does take her tits and nipples out of play for a while. Then, on Sunday, she ended up hurting her knee and it appears she tore a ligament in her knee. We will find out in the next week how serious the knee injury is. We all hopes she recovers quickly. I hope I don’t get tennis elbow while she recovers. 😀

With a little luck, she will be back soon and hornier than ever. She was planning something for my birthday which is less than two months away. I have no details on what she was planning or if this affects her plans. I guess we will find out soon enough.

 

[coastalkid]

There have been several developments since my last post.

First, my wife was able to meet up with her regular fuck buddy last week after a couple weeks of conflicting schedules. He did a great job pleasing her before donating a generous load of cum deep inside her pussy. She then came home and was waiting for me to get home. Unfortunately, I got tied up running some errands and it was two hours after he filled her up before I got home. Despite the extended time, she was still very wet and still well lubed from his cum. Two hours of working myself up was just the ticket as my wife enjoyed my extra aggressive fuck.

Second, it’s likely going to be a bit before she plays again. (Including with me.). We both knew this was coming as she has a minor medical procedure coming up this week and will need to take it easy for 2-3 weeks. Since it has been on the schedule, she was planning to fuck both of us again right before her surgery so we minimize the sex free time. However, she threw a couple of curveballs at us. First, last week she decided to get her nipples pierced. While this wouldn’t prevent having sex, it does take her tits and nipples out of play for a while. Then, on Sunday, she ended up hurting her knee and it appears she tore a ligament in her knee. We will find out in the next week how serious the knee injury is. We all hopes she recovers quickly. I hope I don’t get tennis elbow while she recovers. 😀

With a little luck, she will be back soon and hornier than ever. She was planning something for my birthday which is less than two months away. I have no details on what she was planning or if this affects her plans. I guess we will find out soon enough.

I really love the nipple piercing idea! I think it's sexy personally. It makes me think of when I was a middle school classroom teacher. I often had parents (moms) that would volunteer to help with grading papers and other prep work. One mom came in to help me grade papers. We sat side by side at a table. Glancing over at her I noticed she had pierced nipples. I could see the impression against her blouse. I quickly turned away because I didn't want to be caught staring. I had to redo all my grading that day.

The knee and the minor procedure are a drag but as you get older those things will also come with greater frequency. Focus on her getting better and keep your mind on what she could possibly be planning for your birthday. It sounds like she's really putting you first these days. Do you feel more confident about our relationship with her than ever before?

 

[Iahotwifeshusband]

I really love the nipple piercing idea! I think it's sexy personally. It makes me think of when I was a middle school classroom teacher. I often had parents (moms) that would volunteer to help with grading papers and other prep work. One mom came in to help me grade papers. We sat side by side at a table. Glancing over at her I noticed she had pierced nipples. I could see the impression against her blouse. I quickly turned away because I didn't want to be caught staring. I had to redo all my grading that day.

The knee and the minor procedure are a drag but as you get older those things will also come with greater frequency. Focus on her getting better and keep your mind on what she could possibly be planning for your birthday. It sounds like she's really putting you first these days. Do you feel more confident about our relationship with her than ever before?

She is showing some strong signs. I do wonder about follow through. We are getting along very well, but she will make it happen when she is good and ready. If she decides to wait, we will wait and I am wasting my breath asking what happened. For example, the getaway on Valentine’s weekend fell apart due to weather. She hasn’t said another word about that event. (Even prior to her injury). As always, it’s a mix of emotions. ;-)

 

[coastalkid]

She is showing some strong signs. I do wonder about follow through. We are getting along very well, but she will make it happen when she is good and ready. If she decides to wait, we will wait and I am wasting my breath asking what happened. For example, the getaway on Valentine’s weekend fell apart due to weather. She hasn’t said another word about that event. (Even prior to her injury). As always, it’s a mix of emotions. ;-)

Somedays I feel like I'm held hostage sexually with my wife. You often hear the phrase, "Men have a one track mind." My wife has one track mind too, but it's not always on sex. It's on whatever she's doing at the moment. I've learned to know better than to interrupt her unless the house is on fire. Everything feels like it's "on her time". Seriously, she's said, "What was it you wanted to ask me this morning?", when it late into the evening. I don't think she even recognizes that she's doing it. Her personal world is linear.

Same with anything I have already asked her about. I can't tell you how many times I've started a conversation with, "Hey honey you remember when I asked you about (fill in the blank)?" I don't think she's old enough, but maybe she has situational dementia. Things happen or don't happen on her time. I know that much.

 

[Iahotwifeshusband]

Somedays I feel like I'm held hostage sexually with my wife. You often hear the phrase, "Men have a one track mind." My wife has one track mind too, but it's not always on sex. It's on whatever she's doing at the moment. I've learned to know better than to interrupt her unless the house is on fire. Everything feels like it's "on her time". Seriously, she's said, "What was it you wanted to ask me this morning?", when it late into the evening. I don't think she even recognizes that she's doing it. Her personal world is linear.

Same with anything I have already asked her about. I can't tell you how many times I've started a conversation with, "Hey honey you remember when I asked you about (fill in the blank)?" I don't think she's old enough, but maybe she has situational dementia. Things happen or don't happen on her time. I know that much.

Women are the gatekeepers for sex. In all ways. It is frustrating and exhilarating. Though I think it is frustrating far more than exhilarating.

 

[NeedaDomInMI]

There have been several developments since my last post.

First, my wife was able to meet up with her regular fuck buddy last week after a couple weeks of conflicting schedules. He did a great job pleasing her before donating a generous load of cum deep inside her pussy. She then came home and was waiting for me to get home. Unfortunately, I got tied up running some errands and it was two hours after he filled her up before I got home. Despite the extended time, she was still very wet and still well lubed from his cum. Two hours of working myself up was just the ticket as my wife enjoyed my extra aggressive fuck.

Second, it’s likely going to be a bit before she plays again. (Including with me.). We both knew this was coming as she has a minor medical procedure coming up this week and will need to take it easy for 2-3 weeks. Since it has been on the schedule, she was planning to fuck both of us again right before her surgery so we minimize the sex free time. However, she threw a couple of curveballs at us. First, last week she decided to get her nipples pierced. While this wouldn’t prevent having sex, it does take her tits and nipples out of play for a while. Then, on Sunday, she ended up hurting her knee and it appears she tore a ligament in her knee. We will find out in the next week how serious the knee injury is. We all hopes she recovers quickly. I hope I don’t get tennis elbow while she recovers. 😀

With a little luck, she will be back soon and hornier than ever. She was planning something for my birthday which is less than two months away. I have no details on what she was planning or if this affects her plans. I guess we will find out soon enough.

Hoping for a quick recovery on all fronts

 

[Iahotwifeshusband]

Hoping for a quick recovery on all fronts

Thank you!