Yes I can see why - a few scoops at the pub then back to see her on her back - does she dildo or vibe herself to work the grandpas up or do that while yous are at the pub ? . Do some of them think your winding them up ? Or do you show them pics of her or something ? - I’m trying to get my wife to take a grandpa - there’s one she likes at her work - any ideas how to lead her into it ? .