Long time lurker, first time poster

What's up my fellow pervs. I have been on this site for a while, perving and learning. I never really had anything to contribute until now so thought it would be a good time to create my first post.

Wife and I both late 40s. have 3 kids, 12 and up. Sex has been frequent through our marriage with some rough patches here and there but both of us enjoy each other still. She's admittedly very vanilla and always has been. Grew up in a home where they made her think sex was bad. But I have slowly but surely helped her break free from this.

I made my wife aware of my desire to see her open up more and do a three-way with me probably about 10 years ago. I was met with the very common response of "Absolutely Not!". She for many years basically said I was enough for her, still says it to be honest but I'll get to the juicy bits here soon.

We've had a couple trips to Vegas where she agreed to do a 3-way but with another woman. I always knew she thought other women were hot, so I agreed to it. Same person both times in LV and we had an absolute blast, but still my desire to see her with another dude was definitely even more strong now. She continued to decline. I did not push it and just kind of left it. But what I've done over the last year that I feel has really gotten us to a really good place with all this is just become a lot more transparent with her and what I like to look at online. We do look at porn occasionally during sex, but she knows I go to amateur sites like this and look at real ladies. I basically shared a couple of these types of sites with her and started to post some pics of her, she really likes it and it really got her worked up seeing girls and guys comment sexually on her. A great ego boost! and great sex afterwards.

Over the last year or so, we've been posting shots of her in various forms of naked and kept pushing the envelope, showing more risque photos (her open pussy, sucking my cock, etc). Each post and corresponding responses garnered more positive reinforcement for her and she has started to really come out of her shell.

Recently, we had our anniversary coming up and she wanted to have a night away. I obviously was game. We decided to go to a casino resort. Knowing of a swing club nearby, I jokingly said "we should go there to check out the scene and people watch". She had no idea what the place was, but searched it online and said "that's a swinger club!". I said I know. In the past she has, without hesitation, declined anything like this, but this time she said "that actually looks fun!". You can imagine my shock.

Over the next month, she shopped for various dresses and even scheduled a Brazilian wax! The signs all pointed to her finally coming around to fulfilling my fantasy of tag-teaming her with another man. We ventured to the swing club and were some of the first patrons to arrive. We had agreed prior that we would just play with one another and not swap or anything like that, but her behavior made me think she had other plans. She wore a great form fitting dress that showed her cleavage off, and she took her panties off immediately upon arriving. We got our tour, settled in an area on a couch and did in fact people watch.

It wasn't long for us to be approached by a couple. The ladies seem to get along and we started to dance together on the dance floor. The ladies groped each other, showed their tits to each other, Grinded on each other and us, the drinks were flowing. It was a great time for all. In between a song, the other woman asked my wife to swap and my wife declined. I was not really aware of this transpiring as I was dancing behind my wife at the time, and it was around this time the place emptied out to the orgy playroom.

We headed to the bar, where there were a few stragglers and I was confused to be honest. I was asked by a different woman and her husband to "come to the playroom". My wife looked at me and said "Maybe we can go check it out?". We ventured down. Upon arriving outside the "room" we were asked to undress completely into towels. We did so and ventured in.

I laid her down on a free section of the couch and started to eat her pussy good. she was hesitant to take her towel off but I continued to lick her good. to my right was another couple, where the wife had been giving me googly eyes for much of the night. Her husband was eating her out and she was in a state of ecstasy. I watched her a bit and refocused to my wife.

Suddenly my wife said she wanted to leave. It was really abrupt and we hadn't even been in the room for 10 minutes or so. I was really drunk and confused and got up, and we left. We were having some words on the way out, both of us too drunk (very much a lesson learned here). We ventured back to our hotel room and instead of mind blowing sex all night, we argued. She said that the guy next to us eating his wife out and then fucking his wife kept looking at her and locking eyes and it made her feel uncomfortable. I told her that I was doing the same to his wife, and I think she realized that that's really part of the whole experience.

The next couple of days were awkward and I felt like this was all a big mistake and my fantasy was completely over now. But last night, in the middle of the night, after spending a couple of days stewing over the events that transpired at the club, we both jumped each other's bones. It was unlike any sex we've had before. Her inhibitions seemed to have melted away. Things she would never do (69 with her on top grinding into my face) she was doing with porno flavor. She was squirting non-stop! It was wild to say the least. She admitted that she was not ready for the guy to be gawking her naked, but the more she thought about it, the more she thought how hot is was to be watched. She admitted that the fantasy of mine is now a fantasy of hers, but she wants to ease into this and possibly look for another for a 3-way with another dude. I want to add that I'm not into the "cuck" thing or humiliation or eating anyone's cum or anything like that. I'm very much a bull to my wife currently and in general. I have a decent package and good skills in the bedroom. Not to toot my own horn or anything lol. I guess you could say we are a stag/vixen couple maybe? I don't know all the vernaculars but I think you understand. She said if she could go back in time, she would have let herself go more and really let loose down there. She also created a new account on reddit and wants to post her own pics there, Massive progress!

So for now, I like where things are headed. I'm probably leaving out a lot of details here, but this is already too long and if you've read this far kudos to you! I needed to get it off my chest.

I may be responding with some good news in the near future.
 
What's up my fellow pervs. I have been on this site for a while, perving and learning. I never really had anything to contribute until now so thought it would be a good time to create my first post.

Wife and I both late 40s. have 3 kids, 12 and up. Sex has been frequent through our marriage with some rough patches here and there but both of us enjoy each other still. She's admittedly very vanilla and always has been. Grew up in a home where they made her think sex was bad. But I have slowly but surely helped her break free from this.

I made my wife aware of my desire to see her open up more and do a three-way with me probably about 10 years ago. I was met with the very common response of "Absolutely Not!". She for many years basically said I was enough for her, still says it to be honest but I'll get to the juicy bits here soon.

We've had a couple trips to Vegas where she agreed to do a 3-way but with another woman. I always knew she thought other women were hot, so I agreed to it. Same person both times in LV and we had an absolute blast, but still my desire to see her with another dude was definitely even more strong now. She continued to decline. I did not push it and just kind of left it. But what I've done over the last year that I feel has really gotten us to a really good place with all this is just become a lot more transparent with her and what I like to look at online. We do look at porn occasionally during sex, but she knows I go to amateur sites like this and look at real ladies. I basically shared a couple of these types of sites with her and started to post some pics of her, she really likes it and it really got her worked up seeing girls and guys comment sexually on her. A great ego boost! and great sex afterwards.

Over the last year or so, we've been posting shots of her in various forms of naked and kept pushing the envelope, showing more risque photos (her open pussy, sucking my cock, etc). Each post and corresponding responses garnered more positive reinforcement for her and she has started to really come out of her shell.

Recently, we had our anniversary coming up and she wanted to have a night away. I obviously was game. We decided to go to a casino resort. Knowing of a swing club nearby, I jokingly said "we should go there to check out the scene and people watch". She had no idea what the place was, but searched it online and said "that's a swinger club!". I said I know. In the past she has, without hesitation, declined anything like this, but this time she said "that actually looks fun!". You can imagine my shock.

Over the next month, she shopped for various dresses and even scheduled a Brazilian wax! The signs all pointed to her finally coming around to fulfilling my fantasy of tag-teaming her with another man. We ventured to the swing club and were some of the first patrons to arrive. We had agreed prior that we would just play with one another and not swap or anything like that, but her behavior made me think she had other plans. She wore a great form fitting dress that showed her cleavage off, and she took her panties off immediately upon arriving. We got our tour, settled in an area on a couch and did in fact people watch.

It wasn't long for us to be approached by a couple. The ladies seem to get along and we started to dance together on the dance floor. The ladies groped each other, showed their tits to each other, Grinded on each other and us, the drinks were flowing. It was a great time for all. In between a song, the other woman asked my wife to swap and my wife declined. I was not really aware of this transpiring as I was dancing behind my wife at the time, and it was around this time the place emptied out to the orgy playroom.

We headed to the bar, where there were a few stragglers and I was confused to be honest. I was asked by a different woman and her husband to "come to the playroom". My wife looked at me and said "Maybe we can go check it out?". We ventured down. Upon arriving outside the "room" we were asked to undress completely into towels. We did so and ventured in.

I laid her down on a free section of the couch and started to eat her pussy good. she was hesitant to take her towel off but I continued to lick her good. to my right was another couple, where the wife had been giving me googly eyes for much of the night. Her husband was eating her out and she was in a state of ecstasy. I watched her a bit and refocused to my wife.

Suddenly my wife said she wanted to leave. It was really abrupt and we hadn't even been in the room for 10 minutes or so. I was really drunk and confused and got up, and we left. We were having some words on the way out, both of us too drunk (very much a lesson learned here). We ventured back to our hotel room and instead of mind blowing sex all night, we argued. She said that the guy next to us eating his wife out and then fucking his wife kept looking at her and locking eyes and it made her feel uncomfortable. I told her that I was doing the same to his wife, and I think she realized that that's really part of the whole experience.

The next couple of days were awkward and I felt like this was all a big mistake and my fantasy was completely over now. But last night, in the middle of the night, after spending a couple of days stewing over the events that transpired at the club, we both jumped each other's bones. It was unlike any sex we've had before. Her inhibitions seemed to have melted away. Things she would never do (69 with her on top grinding into my face) she was doing with porno flavor. She was squirting non-stop! It was wild to say the least. She admitted that she was not ready for the guy to be gawking her naked, but the more she thought about it, the more she thought how hot is was to be watched. She admitted that the fantasy of mine is now a fantasy of hers, but she wants to ease into this and possibly look for another for a 3-way with another dude. I want to add that I'm not into the "cuck" thing or humiliation or eating anyone's cum or anything like that. I'm very much a bull to my wife currently and in general. I have a decent package and good skills in the bedroom. Not to toot my own horn or anything lol. I guess you could say we are a stag/vixen couple maybe? I don't know all the vernaculars but I think you understand. She said if she could go back in time, she would have let herself go more and really let loose down there. She also created a new account on reddit and wants to post her own pics there, Massive progress!

So for now, I like where things are headed. I'm probably leaving out a lot of details here, but this is already too long and if you've read this far kudos to you! I needed to get it off my chest.

I may be responding with some good news in the near future.
TY for posting, a good realistic read, id love updates on progress, and how your mind is eXpanding into this eXciting Taboo . good luck going forward.,
 
TY for posting, a good realistic read, id love updates on progress, and how your mind is eXpanding into this eXciting Taboo . good luck going forward.,
Thanks toolman. So things are progressing quite well. She opened up recently and said while she's not sure she can do a MFM with a stranger giving her PIV, she did say she thinks a spit roast where I'm fucking her and she's sucking someone else is something that is occupying her thoughts right now. Additionally, last weekend, we had a significant milestone. For many years I've asked her to let me give her a facial and was met with hard no but this past weekend she asked for it and it was incredible.
 
I will say, I'm struggling to define what I am with all of this. I am not cuck, not into humiliation and hung quite well tbh. I also don't think i'm "stag" because I don't just like to watch, but participate. So that leaves swinger or bull, of which I believe I could handle either role quite well. The best part of all this is we've been openly communicating about it.