Because my wife is shared to the full, nothing she does with me is off limits for her boyfriends. So we all get exactly the same treatment. That in itself is the real meaning of being shared. There are no role playing or games. I get what they do. That is the kick. No humiliating, just the reality that others get to experience my wife fully like I do, in addition she could get pregnant by one. I don’t like BS. I want real.