I use photoshop, but I create the effects myself, it’s not a simple filter. It does mean I can be as creative with the original as I want, but mostly I tend to be true to the original unless someone requests otherwise.
You can either post a picture for me to play with or you can DM me, if you want to keep it private. I will then work on it using photoshop and give you something that I hope you and your wife will love.