Well I always ask lol usually when I’m doing them doggy I just like to slip a finger in their ass then just ask about fucking it to which they usually say no fucking way that’s going in my ass!!
Not many. My FWB is a little thinner I'd say he's my main fuck these days
Had one unpleasant experience that way which almost put me off the whole thing
I'm only 5'3 so I'm pretty small framed despite carrying some extra weight. Honestly I was really surprised that my dates flat out asked me for A really. Never came up last time I was single in in the noughts