the same thing happens with us, my husband is not a cuckold, he doesn't clean me, but he doesn't refuse to kiss me after I sucked my lover and while I still have the remains of his sperm in my vagina, and he's not gay, it means a lot to me, even though I have his permission to have a lover and even though I do it in front of him, this gesture means that he loves me, that he gives me even more love