I am generally shaved or trimmed into some shape, based on my current Lovers desire. Hubby prefers shaved or trimmed anyway. None of my Lovers has ever wanted the wild and woolly look, that is too much like their wives way and they want something different. I am amazed at the number of women who NEVER touch their vaginal hair at all and their husbands hate it that way. Might be something for ladies to consider.
J (the wife)