Is this wife straying with the neighbor boy?

[nobs99]

This is one of those story that couldn't be made up even if one tried...you need to come back with part two. But I'd like to ask you, you seem to love your wife and kid very much and worries about breaking up the family, is this something would think you could live with going forward? Could this be a turn on for you just watch the action while you're away? Please don't tell her you install cameras in the home she'll turn this whole thing around on you so be very careful not to share that information. Good luck and keep us informed.

Austintex69 this came as a surprise to me and since then I have been exploring options but its just hard to digest.
keeping family together comes first because I would prefer to not stay away from my daughter ever. she is a toddler now.
Can I live with going forward? I cant think of another option because I want to come home to my little one. Separation would be devastating to me.
Does it turn me on? No. I come from a situation that I was the one married men would push their wives towards.
Maybe I am delusional and think I was the most virile bull ever or maybe it was just a mindset. As a man ages his priorities change and maybe that is the attracting factor the wife misses and goes looking for it by getting involved with younger men. Just speculating. I have no clue.
If I work on getting laid outside the marriage I could get females but that is not my focus. And no, wont be telling her about the camera system.
I havent seen anything extraordinary except her neighbor brought a friend of his maybe the same age and maybe not. never seen the kid around. But I have been busy and when I am home its all about my toddler. Not dwelling on this but at least I know whats going on. I wont be asking and she wont be telling me I guess. except another thing that came to me, 5 years into our marriage it just occurred to me that she had bought a show on hulu called the affair. In hindsight it looks like a hint now. it went right over my head. She had also met behind my back with a former friend who happened to be a porn star

 

[tossawy83]

Have you considered secretly installed a microphone or camera in your bedroom to get video evidence of this tryst?

 

[nobs99]

Have you considered secretly installed a microphone or camera in your bedroom to get video evidence of this tryst?

tossawy83 thank you for the question. the place is wired up the wazoo. spy caliber gear. for video and sound. all saved in the cloud. any questions DM me.

 

[nobs99]

and yes I have caught them in the act via cameras. if I am not there it's a matter of logging in and the dude will be there. its boring to me and I no longer have sex with her

 

[tossawy83]

and yes I have caught them in the act via cameras. if I am not there it's a matter of logging in and the dude will be there. its boring to me and I no longer have sex with her

So what’s next divorce?

 

[nobs99]

So what’s next divorce?

absolutely! If you can tell me how I can go on without my toddler, I can file for divorce the same day. to be candid, I cant go on if I dont see my baby everyday. wife got me by the short and curlies for sure. She can bang a horse if she chooses and it doesn't bother me. The fascinating part though is to look back on the 10 years together and come to realize how blind and dumb I have been and the new context added to our whole past.

Could write a book. innocent stories took a whole new meaning. Tip of the hat and wag of the finger to her. An absolute master. Pulled a wool over my eyes for a whole decade and I only find out when she decided she wanted me to see it. I have to laugh.

Like the one night we rode a car home from a mexican place we frequented every night and I was blindsided by explosion of anger she had, about something I did to ******** her off. Dont know what I did to this day.

Anyway, that night, she got home, called another uber and said she would be sleeping in a hotel that night or the story she came out with recently saying that a teacher colleague of hers was always showing up at her classroom, asking her where she lived, what car she drove etc then her working late and her gps showed she was at some house near the school for about an hour everyday [after work].

 

[nobs99]

absolutely! If you can tell me how I can go on without my toddler, I can file for divorce the same day. to be candid, I cant go on if I dont see my baby everyday. wife got me by the short and curlies for sure. She can bang a horse if she chooses and it doesn't bother me. The fascinating part though is to look back on the 10 years together and come to realize how blind and dumb I have been and the new context added to our whole past.

Could write a book. innocent stories took a whole new meaning. Tip of the hat and wag of the finger to her. An absolute master. Pulled a wool over my eyes for a whole decade and I only find out when she decided she wanted me to see it. I have to laugh.

Like the one night we rode a car home from a mexican place we frequented every night and I was blindsided by explosion of anger she had, about something I did to ******** her off. Dont know what I did to this day.

Anyway, that night, she got home, called another uber and said she would be sleeping in a hotel that night or the story she came out with recently saying that a teacher colleague of hers was always showing up at her classroom, asking her where she lived, what car she drove etc then her working late and her gps showed she was at some house near the school for about an hour everyday [after work].

the confession
I was surprised when the wife decided to reveal to me a sanitised version of what has been taking place.
What she asked: how he was feeling after the accident and if it worked as normal as before.
He said it worked and as they joked she went to slap him on the leg and grazed something other than his leg
all concerned about him returning to his mother with a third leg shoved in his jeans, she suggested he used the bathroom to wok on it until it calmed down.

Then she says he tried but to no avail and mother instinct drove her to try to help him.
I said how generous of you.
she told him to come out the bathroom, sit on the bed and she thought she could make it calm down.

as she said, trying hand, mouth and eventually she had him rub it on her undercarriage.
What I saw on the camera was a bit more than "rubbing" his tool on her. It was more like burying it but ok I kept listening.
Then he came surprisingly fast and was about to leave but the thing decided to get hard again.

they went at it again and he came very fast again. then he left only to sneak out later and visit her again.

So are you pissed or what she asked? I said hey I dont own you, you make your own decisions so, you will live with them.
then she asked how that would affect the marriage. My response was... TO BE CONTINUED

 

[NeedaDomInMI]

This sounds like dangerous grounds. She may end up pregnant with the kid’s baby and you will be on the hook for raising it. Consult a lawyer and know your rights and obligations.

 

[nobs99]

This sounds like dangerous grounds. She may end up pregnant with the kid’s baby and you will be on the hook for raising it. Consult a lawyer and know your rights and obligations.

I agree. and she thinks it is normal for a women behave the way she does.

 

[NeedaDomInMI]

I agree. and she thinks it is normal for a women behave the way she does.

Sounds like she is living in fantasy land where she can’t get or give STD’s or get pregnant. Places where unicorns fart rainbows. Walk carefully my friend. Her fog may have serious consequences for you.

 

[nobs99]

You bet I have been turned off about her for a while. Just staying around for my little one thank gou

 

[jw_kk]

As you’re likely coming to face, your wife intentionally seduced this young man, and has been having sex with him. Her actions likely exceed what she’s confessed, as you describe as a “sanitized version.”

Certainly there are all kinds of risks, from pregnancy to emotional intimacy, disconnect, friction and divorce. That being said, why not just enjoy it all?

We’re all different. In my case, KK, my wife, has never been happily monogamous, even from the time we were dating. She broke off our engagement during our early college years, to explore her sexuality. We eventually resumed our engagement, and got married. The break-up experience triggered my interest, and obsession on KK having sex with other men. It remained (I thought) pillow-talk driven fantasy. What I initially didn’t know was that KK had been cheating on me continuously throughout our entire relationship.

When I finally confirmed it, I chose not to confront her. Instead, I used the knowledge to try and advance the fantasy, as tools to coax her into openly having sex with other men, and include me in the experience. It took decades, and painful experience for that to finally happen.

Related, among my many discoveries along the way, was the fact that many women, KK included, fantasize about younger men, mentoring them sexually, seducing them, controlling them, even enslaving them sexually. Perhaps your wife is similar?

 

[nobs99]

As you’re likely coming to face, your wife intentionally seduced this young man, and has been having sex with him. Her actions likely exceed what she’s confessed, as you describe as a “sanitized version.”

Certainly there are all kinds of risks, from pregnancy to emotional intimacy, disconnect, friction and divorce. That being said, why not just enjoy it all?

We’re all different. In my case, KK, my wife, has never been happily monogamous, even from the time we were dating. She broke off our engagement during our early college years, to explore her sexuality. We eventually resumed our engagement, and got married. The break-up experience triggered my interest, and obsession on KK having sex with other men. It remained (I thought) pillow-talk driven fantasy. What I initially didn’t know was that KK had been cheating on me continuously throughout our entire relationship.

When I finally confirmed it, I chose not to confront her. Instead, I used the knowledge to try and advance the fantasy, as tools to coax her into openly having sex with other men, and include me in the experience. It took decades, and painful experience for that to finally happen.

Related, among my many discoveries along the way, was the fact that many women, KK included, fantasize about younger men, mentoring them sexually, seducing them, controlling them, even enslaving them sexually. Perhaps your wife is similar?

well thanks for sharing your story,. to your question, I dont know if she follows what you suggested but she does like to teach.

 

[nobs99]

As you’re likely coming to face, your wife intentionally seduced this young man, and has been having sex with him. Her actions likely exceed what she’s confessed, as you describe as a “sanitized version.”

Certainly there are all kinds of risks, from pregnancy to emotional intimacy, disconnect, friction and divorce. That being said, why not just enjoy it all?

We’re all different. In my case, KK, my wife, has never been happily monogamous, even from the time we were dating. She broke off our engagement during our early college years, to explore her sexuality. We eventually resumed our engagement, and got married. The break-up experience triggered my interest, and obsession on KK having sex with other men. It remained (I thought) pillow-talk driven fantasy. What I initially didn’t know was that KK had been cheating on me continuously throughout our entire relationship.

When I finally confirmed it, I chose not to confront her. Instead, I used the knowledge to try and advance the fantasy, as tools to coax her into openly having sex with other men, and include me in the experience. It took decades, and painful experience for that to finally happen.

Related, among my many discoveries along the way, was the fact that many women, KK included, fantasize about younger men, mentoring them sexually, seducing them, controlling them, even enslaving them sexually. Perhaps your wife is similar?

Would you help me understand, when you said you had “confirmed” how exactly did you that?
Also, how did you hear about her fantasizing about younger men, that she’d want to coach and enslave them?
When you said why not enjoy it all? I have no clue how to. Please explain how one would go about enjoying it thank you. You just told her, hey since youre getting with other people I want to enjoy it too so lets do these steps and?

 

[jw_kk]

Would you help me understand, when you said you had “confirmed” how exactly did you that?
Also, how did you hear about her fantasizing about younger men, that she’d want to coach and enslave them?
When you said why not enjoy it all? I have no clue how to. Please explain how one would go about enjoying it thank you. You just told her, hey since youre getting with other people I want to enjoy it too so lets do these steps and?

In my case, confirmation followed first denial, then suspicion. Just since we’ve been married, KK engaged in at least a dozen affairs (that I know of) - these ranged from one-night stands, hook-ups, to more traditional affairs blending sex and emotion.

Various events triggered the initial denial and suspicion. It took some courage to pursue confirmation. It was a combination of hard evidence, including photos, unexplained behavior (absences, being late, “forgetting” important events, expenses), and finally following her to several rendezvous.

In part I didn’t confront her about the infidelity because I was encouraging it - my obsession about KK having sex with other men had remained a powerful influence in my life. In part, I chose not to confront her because I found it erotic - the visualization, imagined scenes, thoughts of my beautiful wife fondling, sucking, and fucking other men’s cocks were insanely stimulating. There were also elements of conflict avoidance, fear, and uncertainty, all barriers to confronting my cheating wife.

The “younger guy” thing started as pillow-talk, well before we started doing the hot wife thing. The first actual experience took place after we started doing the hot wife thing - it happened on a cruise - KK had sex with a young man in our cabin, while I watched.

The “younger guy” thing evolved over time, including KK’s confession, details of her mentoring/grooming fantasy, a confession I shared with KK regarding my own experiences with an older, mature lover, and mutual conversation about the topic.

KK’s insights varied; she enjoyed the attention from an enthusiastic young man, along with the sensation of feeling attractive, desirable, and the young man’s “lust reaction” to an experienced, sexually talented woman. Other factors were physiological - younger men have shorter refractory periods, and in some cases more stamina. That translates into more frequent sex, and longer duration sex in some cases. Some of KK’s young male partners were able to repeat the act hourly, over the course of an afternoon, evening, or overnight encounter.

There were two instances where I actively had to cock-block KK, preventing her from unleashing her desire on then seventeen year-old men (boys?). One of the two was a neighbor’s son - he got the most mind-blowing eighteenth birthday celebration with my wife one might imagine.

For a while, I even leveraged my faculty position to procure college-age men for KK, providing her a pretty steady stream of 18 - 25 year old, virile, fit, enthusiastic young fuck buddies.

Throughout that time, we discussed the “virtues” and “baggage” of younger male partners; what KK enjoyed, disliked, preferred, etc. I listened, looking for insight, inspiration, all things designed to feed and fuel KK’s desires along these lines. The knowledge that she loved the frequent, energetic efforts of young suitors, her satisfaction in teaching a young man to be a good lover, and seeing her sexually and emotionally manipulate, as well as control a horny young man was powerful.

As far as learning how to enjoy it: I relished several things (and continue to do so) from the visual sensation, to knowing KK was sexually satiated, as well as emotionally satisfied by her experiences with younger men.

I learned to enjoy the sights, sounds, and scents, the vibe, associated with those encounters. I grew to enjoy the sight of KK bouncing on some young dude’s hard cock, seeing her make the guy writhe in orgasm, filling her with hot cum. I got off on seeing KK teach; guiding her lover’s lips and tongue on her clit, as she educated him in the art of pussy licking. I got off on pretty much ever aspect of it, especially when I was present, either as voyeur or assistant. Even in instances where I was absent, with KK in the role of “party favor” to a group of young men, I enjoyed knowing that KK was experiencing extraordinary pleasure. Your milage may vary...

 

[nobs99]

In my case, confirmation followed first denial, then suspicion. Just since we’ve been married, KK engaged in at least a dozen affairs (that I know of) - these ranged from one-night stands, hook-ups, to more traditional affairs blending sex and emotion.

Various events triggered the initial denial and suspicion. It took some courage to pursue confirmation. It was a combination of hard evidence, including photos, unexplained behavior (absences, being late, “forgetting” important events, expenses), and finally following her to several rendezvous.

In part I didn’t confront her about the infidelity because I was encouraging it - my obsession about KK having sex with other men had remained a powerful influence in my life. In part, I chose not to confront her because I found it erotic - the visualization, imagined scenes, thoughts of my beautiful wife fondling, sucking, and fucking other men’s cocks were insanely stimulating. There were also elements of conflict avoidance, fear, and uncertainty, all barriers to confronting my cheating wife.

The “younger guy” thing started as pillow-talk, well before we started doing the hot wife thing. The first actual experience took place after we started doing the hot wife thing - it happened on a cruise - KK had sex with a young man in our cabin, while I watched.

The “younger guy” thing evolved over time, including KK’s confession, details of her mentoring/grooming fantasy, a confession I shared with KK regarding my own experiences with an older, mature lover, and mutual conversation about the topic.

KK’s insights varied; she enjoyed the attention from an enthusiastic young man, along with the sensation of feeling attractive, desirable, and the young man’s “lust reaction” to an experienced, sexually talented woman. Other factors were physiological - younger men have shorter refractory periods, and in some cases more stamina. That translates into more frequent sex, and longer duration sex in some cases. Some of KK’s young male partners were able to repeat the act hourly, over the course of an afternoon, evening, or overnight encounter.

There were two instances where I actively had to cock-block KK, preventing her from unleashing her desire on then seventeen year-old men (boys?). One of the two was a neighbor’s son - he got the most mind-blowing eighteenth birthday celebration with my wife one might imagine.

For a while, I even leveraged my faculty position to procure college-age men for KK, providing her a pretty steady stream of 18 - 25 year old, virile, fit, enthusiastic young fuck buddies.

Throughout that time, we discussed the “virtues” and “baggage” of younger male partners; what KK enjoyed, disliked, preferred, etc. I listened, looking for insight, inspiration, all things designed to feed and fuel KK’s desires along these lines. The knowledge that she loved the frequent, energetic efforts of young suitors, her satisfaction in teaching a young man to be a good lover, and seeing her sexually and emotionally manipulate, as well as control a horny young man was powerful.

As far as learning how to enjoy it: I relished several things (and continue to do so) from the visual sensation, to knowing KK was sexually satiated, as well as emotionally satisfied by her experiences with younger men.

I learned to enjoy the sights, sounds, and scents, the vibe, associated with those encounters. I grew to enjoy the sight of KK bouncing on some young dude’s hard cock, seeing her make the guy writhe in orgasm, filling her with hot cum. I got off on seeing KK teach; guiding her lover’s lips and tongue on her clit, as she educated him in the art of pussy licking. I got off on pretty much ever aspect of it, especially when I was present, either as voyeur or assistant. Even in instances where I was absent, with KK in the role of “party favor” to a group of young men, I enjoyed knowing that KK was experiencing extraordinary pleasure. Your milage may vary...

interesting thank you for sharing. the books mating in captivity, sex at dawn and insatiable wives will get one thinking.I feel like I am such a square and would never see myself that forward thinking. Admirable traits you have for sure.

 

[nobs99]

As you’re likely coming to face, your wife intentionally seduced this young man, and has been having sex with him. Her actions likely exceed what she’s confessed, as you describe as a “sanitized version.”

Certainly there are all kinds of risks, from pregnancy to emotional intimacy, disconnect, friction and divorce. That being said, why not just enjoy it all?

We’re all different. In my case, KK, my wife, has never been happily monogamous, even from the time we were dating. She broke off our engagement during our early college years, to explore her sexuality. We eventually resumed our engagement, and got married. The break-up experience triggered my interest, and obsession on KK having sex with other men. It remained (I thought) pillow-talk driven fantasy. What I initially didn’t know was that KK had been cheating on me continuously throughout our entire relationship.

When I finally confirmed it, I chose not to confront her. Instead, I used the knowledge to try and advance the fantasy, as tools to coax her into openly having sex with other men, and include me in the experience. It took decades, and painful experience for that to finally happen.

Related, among my many discoveries along the way, was the fact that many women, KK included, fantasize about younger men, mentoring them sexually, seducing them, controlling them, even enslaving them sexually. Perhaps your wife is similar?

with a young person who lost his virginity either a cow or female horse. I heard more than one story. not sure if diseases can be passed that way but I am done with her anyway.got this off the footage

 

[jw_kk]

Seems like a big loss... It doesn't get you hard, thinking about your cheating wife fondling, sucking, and fucking this young hard man?

Think of it like porn, featuring your cheating wife as the starlet, with her stunt cock. I'm sure she's teaching this young man about the joys a mature, experienced woman can offer; her mouth, pussy, and ass all places for him to explore...

 

[nobs99]

Seems like a big loss... It doesn't get you hard, thinking about your cheating wife fondling, sucking, and fucking this young hard man?

Think of it like porn, featuring your cheating wife as the starlet, with her stunt cock. I'm sure she's teaching this young man about the joys a mature, experienced woman can offer; her mouth, pussy, and ass all places for him to explore...

well always said we couldnt do anal because it was not hygienic but she said she felt bad for the guy because she thought he should be introduced to everything. the whole experience. meaning, she might as well have taken his nuts in her butt too. she took it down to the base of the shaft at least so... thats a start right? anyway the guy also had premature ejaculation. never lasted 2 minutes so she started to blow him until he would come so he would last longer after that. shes such a nice lady, swallowed every time

 

[nobs99]

Seems like a big loss... It doesn't get you hard, thinking about your cheating wife fondling, sucking, and fucking this young hard man?

Think of it like porn, featuring your cheating wife as the starlet, with her stunt cock. I'm sure she's teaching this young man about the joys a mature, experienced woman can offer; her mouth, pussy, and ass all places for him to explore...

get me hard? lol no but I tell you she did things I had no clue she was capable of. a sight to see