For me, it seems the HUSBANDS are the ones who make it easy to cheat. They bug us about their fantasy of us fucking other men. They encourage us to flirt or tell them sexy stories. As with this site, they post our pics for strangers or they show their friends, etc our nude or sexy pics. They get other guys (our friends, neighbors, other acquaintances who seek us out for sex, worked up by telling them "secrets" about our fantasies or our actual behaviors. They encourage us to dress slutty and even wear the suggestive symbology (jewelry, tattoos, clothing with suggestive or overt messaging, etc) which stimulate other men.
Now I don't doubt that other women have issues at home or issues with themselves that lead to their unfaithfulness. That type of unfaithfulness is the kind that can most likely result in marital problems. For most of the husbands the "problem" might be just as simple as we are doing what we've been encouraged to do and badgered about but the problem lies in the fact that HIS fantasy isn't OUR reality. We are doing things the way WE desire them to be done and that's exactly how it SHOULD be. He doesn't realize what he created and WE ARE NOT going back or doing things his way or even following HIS rules. Cheating? Oh well. Deal with it.
Edit: My cheating DID NOT really follow this model at all at first.
Mrs Hotwife
Attn: Married men - Here is a different perspective for you [Something you might not know]
Regardless of the fantasies you have about your wife doing this or that, you should know that regardless of what you want for her to do, there will forever be a pack of young bucks who want to split your wives in half to begin with. Young guys who know what your wife is lackingSo if you didnt know this, now you know.Here is what I mean:
Young bucks are flirting with her, they are hitting on her and eventually they WILL HAVE SEX with your wife and YOU WILL NOT EVEN KNOW.
Except for the fact her pussy will be sore for a few days and maybe a few black and blue marks on her body and maybe some bite marks on her body, boobs, inner thighs, buttocks and at times even hickies. Which she will explain away very easily.
Here is some wisdom for you. In case you aren't aware of whats going on around you. Or Maybe you do but you play dumb. But wait, how do I know all this?
From my teenage years all the way to manhood [14-35] myself and a few other friends, were known as married men's nightmare [and let me preface this with the fact that, I was the weakest of the pack]
All we did was screw married women. Some of my friends would have sex with 7+ married women a WEEK.
The maximum number of married women I had on a given week was only 5. My average was 4 a week. Why? Because I am an emotional type guy and I would feel bad for the family, I would get emotional and at times I even knew the husband and the kids and fuck me! It bothered me, it would mess me up.
I was raised by a very religious grandmother and was taught about family values etc.
Because of that, I felt guilty about doing those things to the nice mommies. Sometimes the thought even crossed my mind that I would be to blame in case the ladies' marriage were to disintegrate. [I have always been an over-thinker.]
But My friends though, they were like hyenas and DID NOT GIVE A FUCK.
They would brag about it too. "I fucked this married lady in the pussy, in her ass then her mouth and she was all sore and she swallowed it."
Most of what she did with us was never done with her husband. We learned that women would come out of their shell and get really wild when having sex outside the marriage and we kept fine tuning our game.
The more we learned the better we got at talking and enticing married women to ...... with us. Because we knew what they wanted.
We knew what they lacked. We knew they hadnt had an orgasm in 2, 3, 4, 5 years, we knew the husband handt rimmed their asshole while fingering their pussies and next thing you know, a huge explosion, whoops they just squirted in our faces like a firehose.
Some women cried, others fell in love with us and others got caught with us by their teenage daughters, making out somewhere inside a car or walking out of a hotel or motel door or parking lot.
We were called the fuckboy gang or hoes and a bunch of other names. Our focus was: FUCKING MARRIED WOMEN
WHY: Because we learned they were horny, pissed at their husbands, wouldn't tell anyone we had sex with them or if they did it, they would tell another married woman and worst-case, we would get another married vagina via a referral.
Married women want to fuck and that's it. they are great in bed, they're clean, theyre grateful and if anything they would give us gifts, buy us dinner.
The other option we had:
Girls or women our age: from the time we were 14-35 they are needy, didnt know how to fuck, asked for everything, asked for money, food, clingy,
Now at 48 years old I am very quiet and focused on raising my daughters. one is 15 and the other is 4.
and from the time I was 10 years old to 12 years old I was already eyeing married women because I was simply attracted to them but had no clue what to do with them if I were ever given a chance. I had never kissed a female in my life
Then one weekend my parents decided to go on a weekend getaway and left me with a married neighbor babysitter/nanny lady who was 31 years old.
I was taught by that babysitter/nanny that a woman's genitalia was existed for purposes other than to urinate. I found my face on it, my tongue inside it and I was terrified and disgusted but after the incident, I was hooked. I wanted more and every lady I knew who was married was a candidate.
How I knew I could have committed women:
All I needed was eye contact from a married woman or a single girl with a boyfriend who wanted to have sex outside her relationship.
I looked for either of the 3 clues listed below from the lady, either isolated or combined as in simultaneous:
1) eye contact for 2-3 seconds
2) a smile
3) preening move - hair flip, adjusting her clothes somehow, her feet pointing towards me
At which point I would approach her and either the same day or a few days later I would be at her house while the husband or boyfriend wasn't there.
And the boyfriend and or husband or fiancée would NEVER find out. EVER.
They would look down at me as a dumb kid or maybe even mildly retarded or just shy. Poor kid what an idiot.
If only they knew.
So to summarize, reality is, women are getting propositioned 24/7 by other men. Some prefer younger guys and others older guys or whatever the age bracket, your women are being offered dick 24/7/365 days a year. You husbands snooze and someone is pounding your woman into next week.