We have found it very hard to find anyone who wants something regular and ongoing. Not sure what is wrong with single men actually. Seems pretty simple to us...be non creepy, d/d free and clean. Show up, have fun and make plans for next time. However single men seem to be all talk and either don't show at all or are just looking for a 1 time thing...not what were interested in at all. Maybe we will find that special person who wants something regular but at this point we have given up and are taking a break from even looking.