Well I'm not gonna discuss what I do for a living, but let me tell you that women who are affected by domestic violence aren't going to go on a fetish website. They aren't going to first say they are bored then say they are being abused. In cases like that, and it holds true with men too, the abused partner will usually stay and not seek help due to a financial situation, feeling like they are trapped, etc. With that being said, I got one reply in a PM to her. I don't know what's going on in her personal life, I don't want to know, but the whole thing is really fishy.