I just don't understand why you think it is ok to cheat just once? She has said she doesn't want cheat on her husband and what is that going to do? It will just damage the relationship and give her zero hope that he wants to be a cuckold. For them to be happy they have to both agree to the lifestyle.
I want to be a hot wife
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What has he said I'm a 53 yr old Bull and I've been actively doing this since I was 19 and I have had 5 hotwives ask me to be fried thier husband and test waters about if he would be in board.
Have you talked to him if he is not sexual he knows its worthless to try and please you . He's mote than likely on another site asking for help to talk hus wife into being a hotwife
Get his phone computer tablet and check browser to find out what he us watching. If that's not it I will find a way to chat with him and work a little magic
Miss Blue --- Constant dripping hollows out any rock.
most women can not say, because of afraid of changing their relationship. You are hotwife now in your feelings, ideas and desires... I hope you live it soon..
Sounds hot. If I was your husband I’d love it! (Did you tell him)?
Depending on your relationship, you need to sit down and talk to him and honestly tell him. As you have stated, that you have not had sex in a very long time, so you need to find it elsewhere, not that it changes your love for him, but you need the fire again. Or, you could watch some porn with him and eventually cue up some cuckold porn and watch it and talk about it.
You can share the fact that it turns you on and gauge his reaction. You may hold the same fantasy, not that I would reveal the entire fantasy right away. But, you need to get it out there, assure him it has nothing to do with loving someone else, wanting him to know how you feel because you love him and do not want to cheat, but also that you need sex. The rest of the fantasy can wait for a while until you enter the lifestyle a bit. then, maybe it will be reality.
People don't like change. In order to get the kind of change you really want, you need to do it in small steps. Make a plan. Start from your goal and work backwards creating a series of steps.
Four or five milestones is a good idea.
Start asking for them to do little things for you. Once that trend is reinforced you can go to the next step.
Think of a new Nickname. Something not too childish. Create a new persona around that. Jeeves the butler, becomes Jeeves then “J”
Look up Female Lead Relationships FLR training online and learn all you can about how to lead.
Allow they to run your bath. Shave your legs. ECT.
Drive you to places you can flirt, dance, meet the right kind of guy.
Point out guys you think are hot. Tell him. Do thid for a while then one day ask him to invite them over to meet you.
And you know the rest.
Ms. Blue hasn't posted in awhile. I'm hoping she'll check back soon.
For starters, "cheating" isn't ANY good advice and gladly she's smarter than a couple posters here. (She's also smarter than the horndogs that want her to be close to them to "help" her. She's looking for help here. Give her a break!)
It is concerning that Mr. Blue has lost his libido. BTW, Viagra, Cialis DON'T address lack of libido. There has to be some desire for those chemicals to work. So disregard those comments. Ms. Blue should have a discussion with Mr. Blue about getting a full spectrum checkup to find out if there isn't some physical reason for his lack of interest. (And the poster that said he didn't want to have sex with her isn't what she wrote. He might not be interested in sex with ANYBODY. If that truly is the situation, it might be physical or psychological and should be properly address outside the amateur aspects of this forum.)
Once the potential medical issue is addressed, then next is to open up communications regarding your fantasies and "needs". Before you can turn your desired fantasy into a reality, you'll need to discuss them to find out what his ideas are on the fetish. If he is concerned with the possibility of "losing you" to someone else, then that will be a difficult discussion. How can you convince him that you'll be "playing" with others, but "staying" with him? You'll need to think about how to address that. Regarding the physicality of what you desire, it might be helpful to find a couple videos online that visually show those to Mr. Blue and find out what his thoughts are on them. Since "cuckolding" is a major search topic nowadays, he might be one of those who is so far secretly on board with your desires. (If so, great for you!) If there is resistance, you'll need to determine how to address again making him comfortable that you'll be able to handle his issues. Don't forget that if you find enjoyment in the activity, you want him to enjoy it WITH you. (That you've already mentioned is your intent.)
But stop one on this tour is finding out why his libido has tanked. Is there stress he is under (ie.-work, other family members, children, finances, etc.) that might be part of the reason for that? It has been said so many times that communications is so important with sex. The time is now to have some discussions (while taking time to masturbate in the shower during that process).
Good luck.
For starters, "cheating" isn't ANY good advice and gladly she's smarter than a couple posters here. (She's also smarter than the horndogs that want her to be close to them to "help" her. She's looking for help here. Give her a break!)
It is concerning that Mr. Blue has lost his libido. BTW, Viagra, Cialis DON'T address lack of libido. There has to be some desire for those chemicals to work. So disregard those comments. Ms. Blue should have a discussion with Mr. Blue about getting a full spectrum checkup to find out if there isn't some physical reason for his lack of interest. (And the poster that said he didn't want to have sex with her isn't what she wrote. He might not be interested in sex with ANYBODY. If that truly is the situation, it might be physical or psychological and should be properly address outside the amateur aspects of this forum.)
Once the potential medical issue is addressed, then next is to open up communications regarding your fantasies and "needs". Before you can turn your desired fantasy into a reality, you'll need to discuss them to find out what his ideas are on the fetish. If he is concerned with the possibility of "losing you" to someone else, then that will be a difficult discussion. How can you convince him that you'll be "playing" with others, but "staying" with him? You'll need to think about how to address that. Regarding the physicality of what you desire, it might be helpful to find a couple videos online that visually show those to Mr. Blue and find out what his thoughts are on them. Since "cuckolding" is a major search topic nowadays, he might be one of those who is so far secretly on board with your desires. (If so, great for you!) If there is resistance, you'll need to determine how to address again making him comfortable that you'll be able to handle his issues. Don't forget that if you find enjoyment in the activity, you want him to enjoy it WITH you. (That you've already mentioned is your intent.)
But stop one on this tour is finding out why his libido has tanked. Is there stress he is under (ie.-work, other family members, children, finances, etc.) that might be part of the reason for that? It has been said so many times that communications is so important with sex. The time is now to have some discussions (while taking time to masturbate in the shower during that process).
Good luck.
Start to dress really sexy around him, wear nice perfume, start wearing makeup and do your nails. Show him lots of attention and be slutty around him.
The aim is to get him to start lusting over you again, when you have revived your sex life then you start introducing dildos into your sex sessions.
This will get him used to the idea of you being pleasured by two or more cocks. Make sure you put on a show and that he feels it's all for his enjoyment.
Before you know it he'll be fantasising about sharing you and your pussy
The aim is to get him to start lusting over you again, when you have revived your sex life then you start introducing dildos into your sex sessions.
This will get him used to the idea of you being pleasured by two or more cocks. Make sure you put on a show and that he feels it's all for his enjoyment.
Before you know it he'll be fantasising about sharing you and your pussy
It can be as simple as Low T. Med advice is excellent advice.
Get 2 dildos. Go to a bar for the night. Try arrange to stay in a hotel. Bring a sexy outfit for your night out then something sexy for when you get back to the room.
Slip a viagra beforehand in his drink maybe ??
Anyway just say you're horny and you have a surprise back at the room for him.
Go to the bathroom and change into sexy lingerie .tell him to have his camera ready.
Come out of bathroom lubed up with the 2 dildos. Enjoy them at same time. One in mouth and another in pussy
Either do this... or send him a video of you fucking yourself while he is at work or drinking with his mates
Let us know how it goes
Good luck
Hardly likely that 5 women would ask you to randomly befriend their husbands lol
Smile, I did know how to convince my wife to step into this "lifestyle“ Here it is the other way around. One thing sure, it has taken me a long time. However, I didn’t drill her brains on this subject- just periodically I came back on this issue.
When on my frequent business trips, I send her sometimes text messages and tasteful pictures specifically on this subject “hot wife”.
Sure, I did it at night time, when I know the kids are in bed and she really had time to look at it.
Constant dripping hollows out the rock
Only years after we had been in this “lifestyle” my wife told me what she had been thinking in the that time.
“ He doesn’t love me anymore “ was her dominating thought in this.
There was a turning point though for my wife to look at it from a different angle...
When on my frequent business trips, I send her sometimes text messages and tasteful pictures specifically on this subject “hot wife”.
Sure, I did it at night time, when I know the kids are in bed and she really had time to look at it.
Constant dripping hollows out the rock
Only years after we had been in this “lifestyle” my wife told me what she had been thinking in the that time.
“ He doesn’t love me anymore “ was her dominating thought in this.
There was a turning point though for my wife to look at it from a different angle...
Talk to total and complete honesty let him.know he is your number one always will be you love him.totally but that you need to be sexually satisfied that you need a man to brimg out yout sexuality ..You don't the other guy to make love to you just sex with no strimgs just sex
Fuck my eyes bruh 😂 for a minute there, when I zoomed in your profile pic, it seemed like a photo of Taylor Swift 🤣
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