Progress update
Sunday I decided to push a little with the fantasy. She says that she doesn't have fantasies, but a couple of years ago, we were away at a hotel for a night. I had dreamed up some complex fantasy, (... I had set her up with a black guy and was watching via ...). It was just my fantasy. She had no idea that in my head she was there with this other guy. When I asked her to come up to the room she said 'but I've only just met you'. When we got back to the room she was filthy. So I've always suspected that she was having practically the same fantasy but I don't want to come out and mention it for fear of her retreating into her shell.
So anyway, Sunday afternoon I grab her in the garage and whisper "Nobody can see us." I kiss her and she's all over it, tongue right down my throat. In the evening I grab her again and whisper "Nobody will ever know". Same again, passionate snog. Later when we go to bed we get close and talk, lips touching as our mouths move, I try to keep anything I say subtle but suggestive. We make love and blow me if it's not the best sex that we've had in as long as I can remember. Her pussy is dripping like a tap. She pulls her feet high, to her shoulders, and wraps her legs around my back in a way that she never has before. She can't keep her tongue out of my mouth. We're on fire. I can't resist saying (believe me I really did try to resist saying this because it's surely not subtle at all) "I've wanted to fuck you from the moment that I set eyes on you." Her tongue is rammed back down my throat and she goes on to have the longest loudest orgasm that she's had for years.
In the morning she happier and more loved up that normal. Especially for a Monday. I tell her how much I love her and during the day I buy her flowers and give them to her after work.
Maybe I'm hoping too much but on Monday I was seeing this as a big result. I was convinced that she must have been fantasizing about committing adultery and that, if so, then there's a desire there that can be cultivated. I was as high as a kite. But she seems to have retreated back into her shell since then though. She's gone all srtaight laced faithful partner and loving ....... Not responding to any suggestive comments. I feel like I've dropped back to earth with a bump. I'm wondering if maybe I read too much into it. I'm back to thinking that she'll never do it. She'll never be a hotwife.