I think I’m making progress! Slow and steady (hopefully) wins the race!

[Myhubbysharesme]

Backstory-
Very happily married for 15+ years with kids. My wife and I are very secure in our marriage and our love for each other. I’m able to be very open, honest and direct with her… the one night I was at work I text her and told her I wanted to tell her my sexual desires … she was very intrigued.. came home, had a couple drinks together and she insisted on knowing but said she hopes it’s not bringing another girl into our sexual relationship… I told her no, but close.
I proceeded to tell her I wanted to share her with another man. She was caught off guard but I explained my reasoning… that my greatest sexual release and peaks are her pleasure.. when she gets off that’s the best sex I have… but I wanted to see her get off… and I could video it… but I’m so into making sure she’s pleasured that I’m missing all the aspects of what really turns me on.. her facial expressions, sounds, seeing her body build up and release.. so if she were to be pleasured by another man I could experience all that. I ensured her that I’m so confident and secure in our relationship both physically and emotionally that I don’t experience any level of jealousy and that’s a good thing.
She processed and explained that even that would feel like a form of cheating to her despite me being okay with it, being there and/or being involved. But she was willing to try other things…we take pictures and videos weekly, so she has verified herself on several nsfw Reddit pages… tells me what she wants to post… she reads the comments and messages while we’re physical with each other.. the other night I saved my favorite comments and messages about what these strangers want to do to her, how hard she makes them, their thoughts on her body… and she read them aloud while I had her on all fours pounding away….. she now said the other day that she would be okay with me FaceTiming a stranger that follows her on Reddit to watch her blowing me or fucking her…it’s taken time to get to this point but I feel like this is progress. My wife has always been pretty reserved, never watches porn… but I’ve opened up her physical side over the years with toys, and everything else to this point..am i fooling myself to believe the more comfortable she gets with this type of thing and as I gradually introduce her to more she’ll get on board with being shared with another man?
I included the most recent photo she chose to post

 

[cheadle]

Backstory-
Very happily married for 15+ years with kids. My wife and I are very secure in our marriage and our love for each other. I’m able to be very open, honest and direct with her… the one night I was at work I text her and told her I wanted to tell her my sexual desires … she was very intrigued.. came home, had a couple drinks together and she insisted on knowing but said she hopes it’s not bringing another girl into our sexual relationship… I told her no, but close.
I proceeded to tell her I wanted to share her with another man. She was caught off guard but I explained my reasoning… that my greatest sexual release and peaks are her pleasure.. when she gets off that’s the best sex I have… but I wanted to see her get off… and I could video it… but I’m so into making sure she’s pleasured that I’m missing all the aspects of what really turns me on.. her facial expressions, sounds, seeing her body build up and release.. so if she were to be pleasured by another man I could experience all that. I ensured her that I’m so confident and secure in our relationship both physically and emotionally that I don’t experience any level of jealousy and that’s a good thing.
She processed and explained that even that would feel like a form of cheating to her despite me being okay with it, being there and/or being involved. But she was willing to try other things…we take pictures and videos weekly, so she has verified herself on several nsfw Reddit pages… tells me what she wants to post… she reads the comments and messages while we’re physical with each other.. the other night I saved my favorite comments and messages about what these strangers want to do to her, how hard she makes them, their thoughts on her body… and she read them aloud while I had her on all fours pounding away….. she now said the other day that she would be okay with me FaceTiming a stranger that follows her on Reddit to watch her blowing me or fucking her…it’s taken time to get to this point but I feel like this is progress. My wife has always been pretty reserved, never watches porn… but I’ve opened up her physical side over the years with toys, and everything else to this point..am i fooling myself to believe the more comfortable she gets with this type of thing and as I gradually introduce her to more she’ll get on board with being shared with another man?
I included the most recent photo she chose to post

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[Man&wife4fun]

Don't give up you've got her moving towards wanting to be with another man.

Unless your wife was into being with a lot of guys before you were with her it will take some time before she can talk with you about being with another man.

It's different with every wife who isn't used to her husband telling her to not only let another man fuck her but let another man fuck her in front of you because watching her being satisfied so much by another man turns you on so much it's hard to explain.

My wife was already a very sexually experienced person before we met and it still took a lot of time talking to her about it before she was comfortable talking to me about everything.

One thing that I believe helped her understand how this is a common fantasy was letting her see all of the couples who are into the same thing.

Seeing all of the porn sites, forums, videos, dedicated to this topic helped her realize this wasn't something as extreme as she thought.

It let her see that couples could both enjoy this together and a lot of the time it made them a lot closer and have a more enjoyable and loving relationship as weird as that seemed.

I don't know if anything I said was helpful to you but the biggest thing is to know it will happen it just takes time.

Soon you'll be posting about your first experience watching your sexy wife being pleased by another man and how exciting and erotic everything was.

 

[essex]

Backstory-
Very happily married for 15+ years with kids. My wife and I are very secure in our marriage and our love for each other. I’m able to be very open, honest and direct with her… the one night I was at work I text her and told her I wanted to tell her my sexual desires … she was very intrigued.. came home, had a couple drinks together and she insisted on knowing but said she hopes it’s not bringing another girl into our sexual relationship… I told her no, but close.
I proceeded to tell her I wanted to share her with another man. She was caught off guard but I explained my reasoning… that my greatest sexual release and peaks are her pleasure.. when she gets off that’s the best sex I have… but I wanted to see her get off… and I could video it… but I’m so into making sure she’s pleasured that I’m missing all the aspects of what really turns me on.. her facial expressions, sounds, seeing her body build up and release.. so if she were to be pleasured by another man I could experience all that. I ensured her that I’m so confident and secure in our relationship both physically and emotionally that I don’t experience any level of jealousy and that’s a good thing.
She processed and explained that even that would feel like a form of cheating to her despite me being okay with it, being there and/or being involved. But she was willing to try other things…we take pictures and videos weekly, so she has verified herself on several nsfw Reddit pages… tells me what she wants to post… she reads the comments and messages while we’re physical with each other.. the other night I saved my favorite comments and messages about what these strangers want to do to her, how hard she makes them, their thoughts on her body… and she read them aloud while I had her on all fours pounding away….. she now said the other day that she would be okay with me FaceTiming a stranger that follows her on Reddit to watch her blowing me or fucking her…it’s taken time to get to this point but I feel like this is progress. My wife has always been pretty reserved, never watches porn… but I’ve opened up her physical side over the years with toys, and everything else to this point..am i fooling myself to believe the more comfortable she gets with this type of thing and as I gradually introduce her to more she’ll get on board with being shared with another man?
I included the most recent photo she chose to post

It'll take time. She is probably worried about you changing your mind then wanting to divorce her. It's a valid fear. It took me a couple of years to convince my wife. I didn't pester her with it.