I had been married before. I got married at 25. A slim trim 6’ 5” 220. As life rolled on I gained 30# and my first wife resented it. I tried to keep a positive sex life going but it was hard work.
At 40 I had testicular cancer and after recovery things slowed to a trickle.
I tried introducing all kinds of stuff to keep things interesting. Toys and cuckold/hotwife talk really set off a spark in her. Pretty soon I was hooked on the idea.
My health started to change with the hormones I’d lost and the weight I gained. She left me after saying I was physically disgusting.
At 50 went on hormone therapy.
I got a new 40 year old girlfriend and a new life. Sex was fresh and exciting again. 5 years later I married that girl. This year marked 10 years since I met her. On our honeymoon we got to talking about if there was anything sexually we wish we had tried. There were things like public sex etc… Then my wife told me she was in a chat group at her Alma Mater that centered around all things sex. What kind of porn does your partner like was a current topic. I ended up showing her my favorite cuckold porn on my iPad. She responded that she had a friend from her group she exchanged sexy messages with for years. I was interested and horny so we did lots of honeymoon stuff.
Time went on and she would occasionally share threads of what her friend was up to. He has offered to meet up but I think she preferred it being closer to a fantasy than reality. It never happened.
I’d insert comments during sex about “wouldn't it be great to have two of us here and the pleasure could last that much longer? “ she already had the toys.
Life has been really stressful the last couple of years and sex has been dwindling. Add to that as a man of a certain age old faithful has become old pretty good sometimes. At the end of September we were having some naked sexy time ; Mr pretty good wasn’t enough. I do have some pretty big hands (you can fit a quarter through my wedding ring) , and a tongue.
While I was concentrating on making her cum she said in a low voice, “I really want to be pounded long and hard. I want you, my friend and my ex to ravage me!” I knew she wanted me to get excited and it worked.
She had never mentioned her ex that way. I know him and I like him. We’ve socialized with him and his family. The next day after dinner I asked my wife if she was serious about bringing in her ex. She spelled out how I always talked about her with other men and he would be a comfortable place to start.
Last weekend I called him out of the blue and started shooting the breeze. I told him we were looking to add a trusted 3rd to our sex lives and that we were both comfortable with him. It felt like forever before he said “yeah, I can do that” I said great and set a meetup for dinner and drinks tomorrow night.
I spent the week talking with my wife about it. Learning limits in detail because this has only been fantasy until now. She seems casual about it but I think she’s downplaying how much she’s really into it. I myself can’t wait.
At 40 I had testicular cancer and after recovery things slowed to a trickle.
I tried introducing all kinds of stuff to keep things interesting. Toys and cuckold/hotwife talk really set off a spark in her. Pretty soon I was hooked on the idea.
My health started to change with the hormones I’d lost and the weight I gained. She left me after saying I was physically disgusting.
At 50 went on hormone therapy.
I got a new 40 year old girlfriend and a new life. Sex was fresh and exciting again. 5 years later I married that girl. This year marked 10 years since I met her. On our honeymoon we got to talking about if there was anything sexually we wish we had tried. There were things like public sex etc… Then my wife told me she was in a chat group at her Alma Mater that centered around all things sex. What kind of porn does your partner like was a current topic. I ended up showing her my favorite cuckold porn on my iPad. She responded that she had a friend from her group she exchanged sexy messages with for years. I was interested and horny so we did lots of honeymoon stuff.
Time went on and she would occasionally share threads of what her friend was up to. He has offered to meet up but I think she preferred it being closer to a fantasy than reality. It never happened.
I’d insert comments during sex about “wouldn't it be great to have two of us here and the pleasure could last that much longer? “ she already had the toys.
Life has been really stressful the last couple of years and sex has been dwindling. Add to that as a man of a certain age old faithful has become old pretty good sometimes. At the end of September we were having some naked sexy time ; Mr pretty good wasn’t enough. I do have some pretty big hands (you can fit a quarter through my wedding ring) , and a tongue.
While I was concentrating on making her cum she said in a low voice, “I really want to be pounded long and hard. I want you, my friend and my ex to ravage me!” I knew she wanted me to get excited and it worked.
She had never mentioned her ex that way. I know him and I like him. We’ve socialized with him and his family. The next day after dinner I asked my wife if she was serious about bringing in her ex. She spelled out how I always talked about her with other men and he would be a comfortable place to start.
Last weekend I called him out of the blue and started shooting the breeze. I told him we were looking to add a trusted 3rd to our sex lives and that we were both comfortable with him. It felt like forever before he said “yeah, I can do that” I said great and set a meetup for dinner and drinks tomorrow night.
I spent the week talking with my wife about it. Learning limits in detail because this has only been fantasy until now. She seems casual about it but I think she’s downplaying how much she’s really into it. I myself can’t wait.
