I don’t know if I should drop it

[whosasking]

Hello everyone,

I’m looking for some honest advice. I really want to share my wife and have put the question to her a good few times over the last 18 months and it seems to be a hard no. She’s aware I’ve had MMF, FFM and FFMM with my ex and she did ask some questions. However, she shuts it down when I ask her to get involved.

There are little instances when she almost suggests and hints at, especially during sex. She’s said how she wants bigger and has had a lot bigger in the past. And recently she’s mentioned a guy at work that she likes, so I brought his name up during sex, which seemed to turn her on. Then all of a sudden she tells me to stop. I can tell there is something there, more so because of how wet she gets when I do say something….. but suddenly tells me to stop it and firmly.

When we watch any MMF porn, she’s very wet, then when she cums losing interest again.

She also said if she was going to cheat, she’d just do it, with me not involved. Again, I’m at a loss, because there are these little glimmers that she might want to do it. Or am I over reading and hoping too much?

I hope the above makes some sense. Can anybody give advice or share of a similar experience with their wife and how did it pan out?

Thanks,

 

[JamesGold2025]

I’ll DM you

 

[Teddy Long]

Been in this situation. Dm me.

 

[Riversideman]

Hello everyone,

I’m looking for some honest advice. I really want to share my wife and have put the question to her a good few times over the last 18 months and it seems to be a hard no. She’s aware I’ve had MMF, FFM and FFMM with my ex and she did ask some questions. However, she shuts it down when I ask her to get involved.

There are little instances when she almost suggests and hints at, especially during sex. She’s said how she wants bigger and has had a lot bigger in the past. And recently she’s mentioned a guy at work that she likes, so I brought his name up during sex, which seemed to turn her on. Then all of a sudden she tells me to stop. I can tell there is something there, more so because of how wet she gets when I do say something….. but suddenly tells me to stop it and firmly.

When we watch any MMF porn, she’s very wet, then when she cums losing interest again.

She also said if she was going to cheat, she’d just do it, with me not involved. Again, I’m at a loss, because there are these little glimmers that she might want to do it. Or am I over reading and hoping too much?

I hope the above makes some sense. Can anybody give advice or share of a similar experience with their wife and how did it pan out?

Thanks,

Similar situation here.
Timing is everything! If you bring it up at the wrong time, it is a hard no.
If you bring it up at the right time, you can get them to talk about it with some details as to what they want...

getting them to actually go through with it. I do not know the secret... it may be easier to find Bigfoot 🙂

 

[whosasking]

Thanks guys. Little update. So she finally told me what her fantasy is. It turns out she wants to ...... with someone else but not have me there, she does it solo. This also turns me on and there is a guy from work that she been speaking about. But again, it all depends on the situation and if she’ll entertain the idea - usually she shuts it down, like my original post

 

[hubbysexywife]

Thanks guys. Little update. So she finally told me what her fantasy is. It turns out she wants to ...... with someone else but not have me there, she does it solo. This also turns me on and there is a guy from work that she been speaking about. But again, it all depends on the situation and if she’ll entertain the idea - usually she shuts it down, like my original post

Probably, for most women is simple if she do it alone at first, without the pressure of their husbands there, watching something they don't get comfortable to do. For other side, they want include the husbands cause is something with pleasure for both, but maybe they have afraid of doing something that husbands can understand wrong. If the wife think about it well, probably is simple in their minds do it alone, at least at beginning. But everything depends woman to woman and situations.

 

[Ocguy]

The seed is planted and she already has potential guy, be patient. The hard part is done already.