Our ...... in 1st grade has a friend down the street. His mom is smooookin' hot. I walk him down there a lot and watch them all play while hanging out with the mom and dad (also a good looking dude. Ex military kind of alpha guy). I know he must think my wife is hot. He must! In my head i am praaaaying for a miracle for him to say something - anything - hinting at that. I wouldn't hesitate to show him any view of her. Makes me wonder if he's thinking the same. It's not an uncommon fantasy, but by NO means universal. In fact, if it's not your fantasy, then it's by default a rude shitty thing to even want. HOW do I find out safely and respectfully? This is a magical unsolved problem. Anyone have any tips?