How to convince wife to role play
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desert23
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We started by having phone sex between ourself and using that as a gateway. Lol hopefully one thing leads to another.
We started by just pillow talk, during sex or watching cuckold porn while masturbating together. It just goes from there, but trust me you don't want to rush it. When we first brought it up she was worried I was just trying to get her to ...... with others so I could as well. Honestly it was easiest for us by starting me off in chastity and build from there with the fantasy. That way she gets comfortable that it is a fantasy at this point and it isn't indicative of anything darker.
This is why we are here, over the last few years we grew from her being freaked out by the fantasy to accepting it and embracing it with role play talk then actual role playing scenes where she is using dildos on herself while I'm forced to watch. It wasn't an over night thing for us, and had I rushed it then she would have shut down from it.
This is why we are here, over the last few years we grew from her being freaked out by the fantasy to accepting it and embracing it with role play talk then actual role playing scenes where she is using dildos on herself while I'm forced to watch. It wasn't an over night thing for us, and had I rushed it then she would have shut down from it.
It just sort of happened with us. Started out with the usual dirt talk and lead into other things from there.
I think we must have eased into it over quite a long period of time.
It depends why she isn't into it to I guess. Need a fair bit more info
I think we must have eased into it over quite a long period of time.
It depends why she isn't into it to I guess. Need a fair bit more info
Mine is in and out of it. She has promised me she would go for it a couple times. Once we went to Florida and there was a hurricane offshore and not much going on but rain. Again we went to Palm Springs and she met an Italian guy who she kind of liked and he liked her. First night there and I thought probably the next night she would fuck him if he tried a little. He had to leave in the morning. She isn't one to jump in bed. It takes a little from the other guy. Had I known the Italian guy was leaving I would have offered some booze and encouragement . Oh Well.
Oh, this is almost too easy. It's almost diabolical. Many here have posted and reviewed the same book, with good results.
The trick is to make your wife NOT think you are tricking her into doing your fantasy, but to have fun and make this into a game for her and you.
There is a book called The Faithful Hotwife, and I found it on Amazon but some others said they found it in an adult book store also. It was written from a woman's perspective to explain to other women about men's lure to hotwifing, but it's also a great read as a couple. The fun part comes in where she leads the couple to take hotwife challenges that slowly build up into some pretty fun and daring challenges. It's all presented as a game so your wife will play along, which normalize the hotwife lifestyle in her mind. This isnt you telling her to do this or that, it's the book, which makes it OK, and takes the pressure off of you.
My wife really got into the challenges, and it was about a month into this when she removed her panties while we were sitting at table in a crowded restaurant bar, and passed them across the table to me in front of my brother. That was her challenge from the book and she did it. What a game changer.
Keep it fun, and you will be role playing the hot wife life in no time.
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