How to convince bi hubby to just go for it?

[Cuckbitch99]

I'm seeking advice on my bisexual husband. This may need to be moved to the bisexual forum, if so please move

For a few years my husband and I have often role-play situations such as him watching me fuck another guy, us sharing a guy or me watching him. We got close to all three scenarios but something would happen (family situation, car accident etc). For me personally the hottest scenario is me watching him with another guy. The thought of another man dominating my husband like he fantasies about gets me so wet

Lately my husband and I went through a rough spot sex wise. Lots of married couples can tell you it happens. Finally we are starting to get back to normal.

The other day I decided to kink it up and told him to pick any porn he wanted. He chose an interracial gay porn. It was hot and we dirty talked him getting it from a BBC while I watched and down the line participated. He came so hard and then I used my toy continuing to think about watching him getting pounded.

Later I told him " we are back on track, let's start looking for a guy for you and us babe" and then he told me something that hurt me.

He said he feels like less of a man and that he feels guilty for even thinking about the fantasy outside of the bedroom. He also thinks now that he's a few years older it's to late(he's not even mid thirties lol) to find someone. He thinks being submissive in the bedroom is bad .

This is an off and on thing with him. He struggles to accept that he's a bisexual submissive guy. I support him and tell him how life's short and we should look into it . He admits he wants to try men but feels to much shame.

Any thoughts? I told him he should look into a sex positive therapist but he says he doesn't know if he has time sigh.

 

[manoverworld]

I'm seeking advice on my bisexual husband. This may need to be moved to the bisexual forum, if so please move

For a few years my husband and I have often role-play situations such as him watching me fuck another guy, us sharing a guy or me watching him. We got close to all three scenarios but something would happen (family situation, car accident etc). For me personally the hottest scenario is me watching him with another guy. The thought of another man dominating my husband like he fantasies about gets me so wet

Lately my husband and I went through a rough spot sex wise. Lots of married couples can tell you it happens. Finally we are starting to get back to normal.

The other day I decided to kink it up and told him to pick any porn he wanted. He chose an interracial gay porn. It was hot and we dirty talked him getting it from a BBC while I watched and down the line participated. He came so hard and then I used my toy continuing to think about watching him getting pounded.

Later I told him " we are back on track, let's start looking for a guy for you and us babe" and then he told me something that hurt me.

He said he feels like less of a man and that he feels guilty for even thinking about the fantasy outside of the bedroom. He also thinks now that he's a few years older it's to late(he's not even mid thirties lol) to find someone. He thinks being submissive in the bedroom is bad .

This is an off and on thing with him. He struggles to accept that he's a bisexual submissive guy. I support him and tell him how life's short and we should look into it . He admits he wants to try men but feels to much shame.

Any thoughts? I told him he should look into a sex positive therapist but he says he doesn't know if he has time sigh.

Don't push him. It's very normal he feels guilty sometimes. He will turn back to fantasy very soon and you are gonna watch him taking a big cock.

 

[Regsissysub]

I guess we were a little different, she has always been the dom one and me the submissive one. I told her I had a fantasy of sucking a guys cock. One night I got home off the road a bit later, when I walked in there was a guy there, thought maybe someone she knew. She had a drink waiting for me. I sat down and had a sip of my drink as we started talking. She told me to down the drink as she wanted to watch me suck this guys cock. I quickly drank my drink, she told me to stand up and get naked, told the guy to turn to me so she could watch us make out before I dropped to my knees and sucked his cock.

 

[Vegas Couple]

I would just keep working on the role play and fantasy. Over time I bet he will get comfortable enough to go to the next steps. Enjoy the journey and he will come around to a little more when he's ready.

 

[nicebiguy]

I'm seeking advice on my bisexual husband. This may need to be moved to the bisexual forum, if so please move

For a few years my husband and I have often role-play situations such as him watching me fuck another guy, us sharing a guy or me watching him. We got close to all three scenarios but something would happen (family situation, car accident etc). For me personally the hottest scenario is me watching him with another guy. The thought of another man dominating my husband like he fantasies about gets me so wet

Lately my husband and I went through a rough spot sex wise. Lots of married couples can tell you it happens. Finally we are starting to get back to normal.

The other day I decided to kink it up and told him to pick any porn he wanted. He chose an interracial gay porn. It was hot and we dirty talked him getting it from a BBC while I watched and down the line participated. He came so hard and then I used my toy continuing to think about watching him getting pounded.

Later I told him " we are back on track, let's start looking for a guy for you and us babe" and then he told me something that hurt me.

He said he feels like less of a man and that he feels guilty for even thinking about the fantasy outside of the bedroom. He also thinks now that he's a few years older it's to late(he's not even mid thirties lol) to find someone. He thinks being submissive in the bedroom is bad .

This is an off and on thing with him. He struggles to accept that he's a bisexual submissive guy. I support him and tell him how life's short and we should look into it . He admits he wants to try men but feels to much shame.

Any thoughts? I told him he should look into a sex positive therapist but he says he doesn't know if he has time sigh.

He might try surrendering to and embracing his feelings. Maybe finding a nice guy and sucking his cock first before involving you.

 

[Cuckbitch99]

He might try surrendering to and embracing his feelings. Maybe finding a nice guy and sucking his cock first before involving you.

I'm thinking about taking the lead. I'm going to Create a Grindr account this weekend and go from there

 

[shymalea62]

you must take the lead!he,s gonna be nervous,maybe angry etc but you must go on,wear lingerie&high heels and tell him you ,ve got enough with his boring sex,from now on he must be obedient&submissive or he can go somewhere else,you gonna see he ,s gonna follow like a puppy,no man can resist a sexy wife and being in love with her,from that moment you can roleplay,spanking,teasing him in public,telling naughty stories,feminize him etc,it,s gonna be a kinky experience

 

[robbiewillsucku]

next time he cums in your pussy - you ride his face and talk smut to him that you both want this - you both need another cocks and you want him to lick your pussy clean afterwards.

 

[jsaltydog]

I'm seeking advice on my bisexual husband. This may need to be moved to the bisexual forum, if so please move

For a few years my husband and I have often role-play situations such as him watching me fuck another guy, us sharing a guy or me watching him. We got close to all three scenarios but something would happen (family situation, car accident etc). For me personally the hottest scenario is me watching him with another guy. The thought of another man dominating my husband like he fantasies about gets me so wet

Lately my husband and I went through a rough spot sex wise. Lots of married couples can tell you it happens. Finally we are starting to get back to normal.

The other day I decided to kink it up and told him to pick any porn he wanted. He chose an interracial gay porn. It was hot and we dirty talked him getting it from a BBC while I watched and down the line participated. He came so hard and then I used my toy continuing to think about watching him getting pounded.

Later I told him " we are back on track, let's start looking for a guy for you and us babe" and then he told me something that hurt me.

He said he feels like less of a man and that he feels guilty for even thinking about the fantasy outside of the bedroom. He also thinks now that he's a few years older it's to late(he's not even mid thirties lol) to find someone. He thinks being submissive in the bedroom is bad .

This is an off and on thing with him. He struggles to accept that he's a bisexual submissive guy. I support him and tell him how life's short and we should look into it . He admits he wants to try men but feels to much shame.

Any thoughts? I told him he should look into a sex positive therapist but he says he doesn't know if he has time sigh.

As I aged, I became comfortable at the idea of sex with other men and eventually desired it as much as sex with women, although with men I am the bottom giving oral or taking anal. Give him time. I bet it will happen as he ages.

 

[Azncouple21]

As I aged, I became comfortable at the idea of sex with other men and eventually desired it as much as sex with women, although with men I am the bottom giving oral or taking anal. Give him time. I bet it will happen as he ages.

Last week I told my wife about an Asian guy at the gym. This guy had the biggest dick for an Asian guy i even seen. He was actually 7 inches hung.
I saw him again friday, this time with clothes on so I text my wife i saw the big dicked Asian guy. What i didnt tell her was i throbbing hard telling my wife about it.

 

[nicebiguy]

As I aged, I became comfortable at the idea of sex with other men and eventually desired it as much as sex with women, although with men I am the bottom giving oral or taking anal. Give him time. I bet it will happen as he ages.

i agree. It seems once a bi guy sucks a cock he's hooked. Like you, after sucking my 1st cock my submissive, gurly,sissy fem side gradually came to the surface. Now I love shaving my body, wearing panties,garter,stockings and sometimes a cock cage before going to my friends for a night of me sucking his big cock and him fucking me but yet I still love eating and fucking my gf wet smelly pussy. Go figure.🙂

 

[dsmontessori19]

how did it go?

 

[vrmtr1]

Any updates?

 

[Ready4all]

Last week I told my wife about an Asian guy at the gym. This guy had the biggest dick for an Asian guy i even seen. He was actually 7 inches hung.
I saw him again friday, this time with clothes on so I text my wife i saw the big dicked Asian guy. What i didnt tell her was i throbbing hard telling my wife about it.

You going for it???

 

[jsaltydog]

i agree. It seems once a bi guy sucks a cock he's hooked. Like you, after sucking my 1st cock my submissive, gurly,sissy fem side gradually came to the surface. Now I love shaving my body, wearing panties,garter,stockings and sometimes a cock cage before going to my friends for a night of me sucking his big cock and him fucking me but yet I still love eating and fucking my gf wet smelly pussy. Go figure.🙂

Except for acting sissy and dressing in fem outfits, I am in agreement. In man-to-man sex, I prefer both guys to be manly even if one is exclusively the bottom.

 

[Bowlerlb]

next time he cums in your pussy - you ride his face and talk smut to him that you both want this - you both need another cocks and you want him to lick your pussy clean afterwards.

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[Cucklovescum]

you must take the lead!he,s gonna be nervous,maybe angry etc but you must go on,wear lingerie&high heels and tell him you ,ve got enough with his boring sex,from now on he must be obedient&submissive or he can go somewhere else,you gonna see he ,s gonna follow like a puppy,no man can resist a sexy wife and being in love with her,from that moment you can roleplay,spanking,teasing him in public,telling naughty stories,feminize him etc,it,s gonna be a kinky experience

I agree ,, be aggressive ,, tell him you always got do horny thinking about. You and him both being forced to obey some domme guy.. tell him if you make my fantasy come true I will do anything you ever dreamed of sexually... have the guy forse you first to suck him then tell me cone close baby watch his Big dick go in my mouth. Then have guy tell him help her , i want both of you sucking and licking me. She pulls his head one on. Baby we gotta do what he says , it's making me so wet , we sharing this cock.
He will start grab husband dick with baby oil , start stroking if he was hard already ,, he loves it. Moan lick talk nasty ,, baby I love you so much for doing this. Push his head say. Deeper baby .. then get him to ly down you straddle his head , big dick fucks you doggy. Tell him to lick your clit. As you get fucked. Then pull dick out. Tell him suck my juices off, taste me. Ummm taste good baby . Keep fucking n pulling it out make him suck . Again n again.
Then lay down and let husband fuck you. Make him suck big dick at same time. .. talk dirty tell him I love you fucking me and sucking so damn hot.
After a while say ,, big dick put it in his ass. Fuck him while he fucks me. Say shhhhhhh do it baby you will love it.. I promise ficus on my pussy . Let him take your ass. I will go crazy. Remember anything you want ..
Lol. I think this is what you gonna want... after he is loose .. you go around and YOU GET REAL DOMINATE ..
YOU LoviNG it .. say it while his ass is been torn up. Say it. Say. Fuck my ass please ... he will then say you my bitch now !!!! I knew you were a little cock sucker and wanted that ass fucked..
Soo hottt .
Say it loud. Please fuck my ass. Suck his dick while big dick tears him up.
Tell him. Say I am. A. Bitch. I love dick. Louder louder spank his ass . Tell him cummmm bitch .. you gonna eat that cumm
Then jack him off.
Tell ig dick cum I. His mouth. Now.
As big dick cums in his mouth. He starts umming at same time.
Feed him his cum too .ake him eat it all.
. After tell him that was hottest sexiest fuck session you ever say. Baby we gone. So this all the time ... tell me you feel soo good. , tell me your favorite parts .. you now have a bitch to use as you want

 

[LilSissyCuck]

I guess we were a little different, she has always been the dom one and me the submissive one. I told her I had a fantasy of sucking a guys cock. One night I got home off the road a bit later, when I walked in there was a guy there, thought maybe someone she knew. She had a drink waiting for me. I sat down and had a sip of my drink as we started talking. She told me to down the drink as she wanted to watch me suck this guys cock. I quickly drank my drink, she told me to stand up and get naked, told the guy to turn to me so she could watch us make out before I dropped to my knees and sucked his cock.

I love it when she and her gf arrange to have two (or more) bulls over for an evening (or longer) fuckathon and the gf sissy hubby provide maid and cleanup services. And while they are on a break, the other sissy and I provide entertainment by passionately making out, 69 wit the one who cums first being the loser and submitting to be fucked by the winner with the wives and bulls taunting and and laughing at us

 

[nicebiguy]

I love it when she and her gf arrange to have two (or more) bulls over for an evening (or longer) fuckathon and the gf sissy hubby provide maid and cleanup services. And while they are on a break, the other sissy and I provide entertainment by passionately making out, 69 wit the one who cums first being the loser and submitting to be fucked by the winner with the wives and bulls taunting and and laughing at us

Sounds delightful. 😍

 

[Peter82]

I'm seeking advice on my bisexual husband. This may need to be moved to the bisexual forum, if so please move

For a few years my husband and I have often role-play situations such as him watching me fuck another guy, us sharing a guy or me watching him. We got close to all three scenarios but something would happen (family situation, car accident etc). For me personally the hottest scenario is me watching him with another guy. The thought of another man dominating my husband like he fantasies about gets me so wet

Lately my husband and I went through a rough spot sex wise. Lots of married couples can tell you it happens. Finally we are starting to get back to normal.

The other day I decided to kink it up and told him to pick any porn he wanted. He chose an interracial gay porn. It was hot and we dirty talked him getting it from a BBC while I watched and down the line participated. He came so hard and then I used my toy continuing to think about watching him getting pounded.

Later I told him " we are back on track, let's start looking for a guy for you and us babe" and then he told me something that hurt me.

He said he feels like less of a man and that he feels guilty for even thinking about the fantasy outside of the bedroom. He also thinks now that he's a few years older it's to late(he's not even mid thirties lol) to find someone. He thinks being submissive in the bedroom is bad .

This is an off and on thing with him. He struggles to accept that he's a bisexual submissive guy. I support him and tell him how life's short and we should look into it . He admits he wants to try men but feels to much shame.

Any thoughts? I told him he should look into a sex positive therapist but he says he doesn't know if he has time sigh.

30’s too late? Ha, hopefully lots of life left in front of him!

From experience I’ll say it’s a tough subject to broach and work through. Therapy is a good start but it’s a big step for a guy relative to this or any other situation. I learned through our therapy I was “situationally sexually fluid” or experience “sexual fluidity”. That is my willingness or desire changes based on situation. According to our therapist it’s very common amongst men in alternative lifestyle marriages.

I would say it’s important for you to understand his desire or willingness may also be situational. We were also warned not to put a label on or perceive what myself or my wife’s activities are. Gay, bi, etc and so on makes it more difficult and judgmental. We discovered that inhibits us and is ostracizing due to internal shame or misconceptions (therapy babble but true). Perhaps your husband is the same?

I’ll finish with this. You and your husbands preferences may be very different for those situations. I would say take it slow, support him, and discover what works for both of you. My wife really gets off to me servicing a couple of the bisexual bulls shes had through our time. I enjoy it in the moment but it’s not something I would do outside of when they are fucking her. On the other hand, my preferred and anytime hook ups are with a couple fellow cuckolds with which we share a bond of our wives being fucked together or separately by their bulls. Like with other men I have no outward meaningful desire based on appearance or sexual drive. But the bond of being cuckolds and experiencing our wives and bulls playing together makes them very appealing. We exchange photos of our wives, watch videos of our wives with their bulls, etc. It’s great, meaningful, and at times passionate sex but it ends after that.

Hope that helps as it’s a lot.