How should we start?!

[Uncledude55]

Would I be correct in saying making that first step and talking to the wife about it would be the hardest part?

Yes....I talked to her during sex (not love making) about how I'd love to see her sucking another man's cock. That progressed to telling her I'd like to watch her being fucked by another man. I had to judge when the right moment was to do this because she wasn't always in the mood to hear it. After several years she agreed to try it at least once. Our first attempt wasn't successful because she got cold feet when the guy showed up. She was afraid I was angry, but I assured her not only I wasn't angry but I supported her decision. The second attempt was one of the most erotic nights of my life....and there has been many more.

 

[DarquesPassion]

Personally, I would introduce her by arranging a MMF threesome, with you as one of the "M"s, or a MFMF foursome. That way she will feel more comfortable having you around to "cover her back", so to speak, and also give her more confidence. With another, more experienced couple, she would also have another female to talk to and, maybe, give her some moral female support.
I started out on the swinging/cuckolding scene many, many years ago by offering myself out to video/photograph couples whilst they were having sex. Thanks to having a tripod, it was only one step to being invited to join in at some point so, vis a vis, you might also consider this another option?

Regardless, however it starts you along that long road of pleasure, I hope it's a lot of fun....and a lot of unforgettable memories! xx

 

[Sugardaddy]

 

[Sugardaddy]

 

[Sugardaddy]

 

[PauloFuego]

With the right 3rd, (someone like me), she'll fall in love with that sex also. If I was the 3rd, she'd have some sex like she's never had. I've broken in girls and couples, friends, partners, and strangers. I have a certain way of being very persuasive and putting the pussy at ease at the same time, that is until get to work on it.

 

[PauloFuego]

She'd love this. They all do.

 

[eljabao1978]

hi, i will massage her as a begining

 

[Uncledude55]

Would I be correct in saying making that first step and talking to the wife about it would be the hardest part?

Yes....At least in my case. I had to have allot of patience with her. On the way home (the next day) from her first time being "shared", she said if she had known it was that fun she would have did it when I first started talking to her about it. We haven't regretted a second of our "play time" together since, and we've been in the lifestyle to over 20 years now.

 

[Ariess]

Hey guys, i finally convinced my gf to get into this life style after a few months of Trying to convince her. So please can you tell me how did you start?! You've to take into consideration that this is gonna be the first time for her to fuck another dick but she's super into sex

I'd love to help break her in.

 

[Myhotwife]

My wife and I didn't get into the "lifestyle" until she was in her early 40's. Talked about it during sex for years....then made it happen. Once she opened up and tried it she loved it.

We're there now.. im hoping!

 

[Myhotwife]

Yes....At least in my case. I had to have allot of patience with her. On the way home (the next day) from her first time being "shared", she said if she had known it was that fun she would have did it when I first started talking to her about it. We haven't regretted a second of our "play time" together since, and we've been in the lifestyle to over 20 years now.

So Awesome to hear good experiences

 

[Riversideman]

Yes....At least in my case. I had to have allot of patience with her. On the way home (the next day) from her first time being "shared", she said if she had known it was that fun she would have did it when I first started talking to her about it. We haven't regretted a second of our "play time" together since, and we've been in the lifestyle to over 20 years now.

Love those success stories.

 

[Uncledude55]

So Awesome to hear good experiences

With the precautions we have always taken, we've had nothing but good experiences (and a hell of allot of fun).

 

[davelb76]

Would I be correct in saying making that first step and talking to the wife about it would be the hardest part?

For us it wasn't all that difficult since we'd been talking about it for a couple of years especially during foreplay. But yes - I would think broaching the topic would be a first difficult step. Make it bed talk - a good ice breaker.

 

[Chardonnay1974]

Hey guys, i finally convinced my gf to get into this life style after a few months of Trying to convince her. So please can you tell me how did you start?! You've to take into consideration that this is gonna be the first time for her to fuck another dick but she's super into sex

Go with a mfm 3some so she can be centre of attention and have a safe and positive experience and she can talk to you about it and share and see how turned on you were sharing her. Give her then time to bring it up. Let her process and if and when she brings it up which she will, explain that you want her to get fucked up every now and then and express how much this would please you.

 

[Bergby]

My hubby caught this guy checking out my behind on the boardwalk in Virginia Beach, went over and invited him to our room and.........been shared ever since

Would love to play with your behind 🙂

 

[Bergby]

Hey guys, i finally convinced my gf to get into this life style after a few months of Trying to convince her. So please can you tell me how did you start?! You've to take into consideration that this is gonna be the first time for her to fuck another dick but she's super into sex

She loooks amazing

 

[Johnfunone]

Sh
she will send her a message

Can she send my wife a message too. Lol
Shes needs to hear from a woman.

 

[happyhubbymi]

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