We all have our own ways of enjoying the lifestyle. For some, quantity is everything, for others it's just that one secret lover over the length of a marriage. Some are open and some are cheating. I've always been a cheat and it's always turned me on. Sometimes it was really unfair to my husband but he knew what he married pretty quickly and he decided to keep me as I was. All of that humiliation and embarrassment for him is really just a passing discomfort I think. It really doesn't matter anyway. We love each other dearly but I was never going to stay faithful to him and I had an odd sort of pleasure from cheating and having other guys know that I cheated on him. We've been in the lifestyle for a number of years now but I still find ways to kind of "humiliate" him with other men. He's really learned how to handle it over the years, but you'd have to be pretty strong to do what he does because so many other people know I cheat on him. Cheating isn't really what I would call it anymore but it's more of the shock of my sex life when he finds out about what I'm doing.
My biggest thrill these days is getting other wive's husbands to cheat with me. I love to meet a woman who's husband has been fucking me and I almost always make them fuck me bare and cum inside me. That way they can't deny it or use the excuse that they wore a condom. I don't really want the wives to find out but if they do I want them to understand that there husband has left his cum inside of me and it stays there for several days. It's just a kink I suppose. I seriously try to avoid the drama and in NO WAY want to be a "home wrecker" at all. I just like to pleasure their husbands with something they don't get at home and in turn they pleasure me.
I enjoy new guys and quantity for sure. I just really get more turned on by the emotional factors and really enjoy "romance" with other guys.
FWIW
Mrs Hotwife
Edit. As you might recall if you've read my stories, I really NEVER wanted to be known as a "slut" in high school and mostly because I never wanted to embarrass my family by being one. Well, that and I was afraid I'd never really find a "quality" boyfriend if I had too much of a reputation. My reputation was carefully crafted that I was a "good girl" and that's what most people thought. Although the guys who know my "boyfriend" knew my wilder side. I did try to get a "slight" bit of a mysterious slutty reputation and that was enough. I didn't have sex with ANY guys in my high school and my father knew my friend's dad very well. We all went hiking all of the time and camping. I just had to be really careful because his dad was fucking me all through high school and I just needed to keep that away from my dad. Of course, as you know, my sister, my best friend and a couple of other guy friends who had oral and anal sex with me since my "jailbait" days knew about it as well. That was an interesting situation between my friend and his dad because they were both regularly having sex with me until my friend moved away. After that it was just his dad but he would come home from college and get aggravated at his dad about it quite a bit.
