At first with her boyfriend, she was doing it at his place. I told her it was ok to bring him to our house and use our bed. Now she does her boyfriends mostly at our house and when in the bed, it is on my side of it.
First meet or two is at a hotel. If they're invited back for more and we have a trust level, then its at our house in our bed. Just amore comfortable setting for her and me.
It's always good when a hubby is there to take photos - unfortunately, I've not always received the promised copies...
....but in some cases I did, as well as permisssion for use - such as with this wife, who also appears in my profile header: