I would like to know a guys mindset when he does this, it seems like dressing up would be a hassle.. its a chore for most women as it is. I'm still new at some fetishes. But if I read this correctly, it makes a guy feel feminine and submissive if his woman is having sex with other men? Or is it deeper? Just trying to process this.
We have a Femdom marriage,and I am a bi-sub-sissy-cuckold and adore being feminized.
My wife has a live-in younger boy-toy.
It takes me at least an hour to prepare and sometimes it takes me 1-2 hours to fully prepare. I love it.
I take a scented bathe, and shave completely smooth. Then I sit in front of a vanity,and apply mascara, rouge,eye lashes,and lipstick.
I dress in lingerie,stockings and heels. Attaching the garters to stockings has alway been a pesky task.
Then I put on my heels. All my heels are 4.5 to 6 inches. I love heels. The last task is combing out a wig.
During this entire time I am rock hard. The preparation is extremely erotic. Lingerie is erotic, and sexy.
Being feminized makes me feel submissive, controlled and humiliated. I love all 3 feelings.
I consider serving an honor and privilge and we could never,ever be vanilla.
I have been submissive and feminized since I was 12yo and love it.
I also believe the sissy lifestyle may be part of our DNA.