Pretty sure I posted earlier
First time we ever did anything, drinking in our kitchen, friend did and cummed in wife, took about 2 minutes, awkward like you can't belive. He left, lots of crying and apologizing from her, weird feelings for me. She took a shower. We end up fucking really nice twice. So 3 loads. That was 4 years ago.
Now we're pretty comfy with all this. He visits often. He goes 3 times I go twice. There's been nights he goes 4, I've gone 3. It's become how it all happens now, 3 for him, 2 for me....sometimes they go again in the living room as they "kiss goodnight" while I'm in up in the bedroom.
It's a fun night for all of us.
More...We'd done it about 10 times over about a year and 1/2. Comfy and relaxing. He'd go once, I do her, he'd go again. I'd stay in bed while she'd walk him to the door, she'd come back to bed, we'd go again before we'd go to ....... One night she came back to our bedroom he was with her, I thought WTF ? They went once more. Was very hot for us.
One night played out normal, they go downstairs, they always kissed goodnight, she took a while to come back upstairs, no biggie. She tells me he did her on the couch before he left. Weird feelings for me but was kinda hot. It's happened a few times like that since then.
So usually 5 loads for her, been six a few times. We all know 2nd and 3rd loads are smaller but it's hotter than fuck for us.