you r right that at family events it may be akward, especially with bros partner. i let my dad do things with my wife and it made family evenys a bit difficult as dad is old and very touvh with her and knowing he has been in her makes her and me feel a bit embarrassed, but overall no big dealI trust her with others and don't mind her being with other people but suppose its always been that we can cut ties if things get complicated it's harder to do that with family. Also not sure how I'm gonna feel at family gatherings knowing he's been inside my wife??