How does one go about finding someone to fuck your wife?

We are searching for the best dating online sites that you have to pay into for this lifestlye. We feel that it will allow us both to vet this guy better since hell be into this lifestyle plus it will help us zero in on the right guy since this will be our first experience doing this. Mainly for me (the wife) since ive never done this with another man while with someone emotionally. I think it will help find someone that mets all of our must haves or close to it.
Here started to get boring.
 
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It is a lot more complicated than it sounds. We have been looking for someone to try this with for a few months but we don’t wanna do it with anyone that we know in real life because it might get awkward that’s why we have been looking online

It's important to remember that this isn't porn or some pie in the sky fantasy you're talking about - this is your real life and that means you need to be careful. Play life stays separate from real life until you are very experienced. You communicate well with your prospective partners and let them know it won't be a quick/fast hookup - which helps to screen out those who don't get "this" or who can't/won't offer you discretion. It's ok to be inexperienced too - just own it. Until you have a few experiences, you just won't know what you like/dislike about this lifestyle - because the reality often differs from your fantasy.
 
Where do you start? How do you find a guy for your wife? Can someone suggest some good screening questions? This will be our first time too so we will be rather cautious about it all. We are in MA if it helps

The first thing you have to as a couple is to have an understanding of what your interests are - and it's ok to be inexperienced! That's because you have to be able to communicate effectively to any prospective third/bull. Once you have an understanding of what you both might like, you have to choose a place to look - here, SLS, Reddit... there are a lot of online options. Where isn't so important as how - you need to put in the time and effort. Show people with your post history what you're thinking about/desiring/needing. Verify yourselves where you can. Engage with the community - you never know when you'll find a local to talk to or a recommendation from another couple. Be patient! You're going to go a lot of chatting, pic trading, coffee dates... a lot of everything before the clothes come off. And that's good! Because you want to get this right rather than get this right now. So take your time, communicate well and good luck!
 
Find a well hung guy, introduce them, nature will soon take its course once she knows he is hung. Women are drawn to well hung guys, if you thing i'm wrong try what I said, your wife will quickly prove me right by fucking him
 
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It can be done in many different ways. Sign up for a SPAM or 10, lol. Swingers sites. Place a personal ad on DoubleList.com. Can have your wife wear Hotwife/Vixen jewelry. Take her out to a club or bar dressed provocatively and sit away from her and let her be seen alone.
We do thst she usually picks a hi stool. Extreme outfit very short skirt and thighstockings with uncovered and shaved. That how she has meet two.of her regulars
 
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as a dominant myself, you need to firstly ensure that you are both 100% ready to do this?
You then need to set strict boundaries and rules for you both.
you need to build up over a good amount of time vetting the person, meeting for coffees, setting rules and boundaries between all 3 of you, deciding where and how it’s going to happen
so many things to sort out before you even get to the point of her being shared
 
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