We started by fantasizing during sex and then the talk continued outside the bedroom. Stacey started wearing provocative clothes, mainly no bra beneath revealing tops, which turned us both on. Then, as newlyweds, a high school senior started hanging around the apartment pool and would flirt with her. Eventually it turned into touching where he would apply suntan lotion for her and then he would visit our apartment to watch sports. He had his hands all over her and they would kiss - not in my presence but I knew everything from Stacey. We'd have some amazing sex afterwards. She became more bold and excited at the idea and of course so did I. My advice? She has to want it as much as you do. Every woman is different ... figure out how to get her turned on by the idea and then delve slowly at the pace she sets.