First you need an attentive, patient and loving partner. Use plenty of lube. When you think you’re lubed enough add more lube. You can not have too much lube. Choose a position that will allow maximum penetration and manual stimulation of your penis while you’re being penetrated. I like missionary because it allows a deep, powerful thrust and with your legs back you are exposing your genitals to your partner for stimulation. Your mouths are aiming at each other for easy kissing action. At some point in time you’re going to feel your partner’s penis rubbing across your prostate gland. When this happens you may feel an urge to urinate. It should pass as your prostate gets more stimulated. By this point your penis should be very hard, dripping precum and you are more than likely on the urge of a hands-free orgasm. If not, start over! Repeat until you get it right! LOL Happy anal orgasms!