Interested to hear how other couples started down the path of the cuckold lifestyle and who was the instigator.
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How did you start who instigated it
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I was definitely the instigator. I met Elaine when I was 32 and she was 29. We were both divorced with no kids . After dating for several months I really started liking her. I had done some swinging and wife sharing with my ex wife. I don't think that led to our divorce, but one never knows. I got Elaine to pose for sexy polaroid pics and she didn't seem to object like some women do. For my birthday she surprised me with some lingerie photos done by a professional she had hired. I was more than pleased with that attitude. After about a year I decided to broach the idea of sharing her. Started with sex talk in the bedroom. While having sex she acted willing saying it might be fun, but nothing ever actually happened. I knew for our relationship to go further I was going to have to press the issue to see if she ! was all talk and no action.
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It was my wife. When we had meet she told me her xbf would share her with a friend of his and she said she enjoyed that and wanted to keep doing that. I had always felt I was a cock I have a small dick and I knew a lady would need a big dick.
When Suz & I started dating, and it turned serious, I told her that I had been in the lifestyle as a single guy....fucking men's wives while they watched. She had never heard of stuff like that, but it did turn her on. I had stopped meeting couples after we got together, and we got married about 6 months later. She kept asking questions about threesomes and gangbangs, and I always answered them in an encouraging way. After about 5 years, she said she wanted to try it. I knew that she would want to all along, because she was a horny assed woman who would rather fuck than eat when she was hungry! I had always thought that her tight little drippy pussy was too good to keep to myself! Her pussy would literally drip when I would pillow talk her about a long thick cock pounding her pussy while mine was down her throat. After she got her first strangers big cock in her pussy, she was hooked, and we've been at it for 25 years now. She has fucked at least 150 men since we started, and still enjoys it! We've always been a Stag/Vixen/Hot wife couple, as I don't do cleanup, and we aren't into any degrading humiliation stuff.
I always had cuckold fantasies about my wife fucking other men. While she was deployed to Iraq, they really intensified. I was in a low place and I was thinking she was ...... with other men. When she came back, I kept having the fantasies. A few years ago we were ...... and just had had sex on her birthday and she asked me what my fantasy was. I told her something about us going out and she wasn’t wearing any underwear. She answer that I must have something more wild than that. So I told her I had the fantasy of her ...... with another man. She got quite and I had though I had pissed her off. A few months later it was my birthday and we went out to eat. While at the restaurant, she handed me her phone and told me to look discreetly at the first picture. It was a selfie taken in a bathroom mirror. I could see her stocking tops but she was naked standing with a naked man. As I looked up at her she said my fantasy had come true today, she looked nervous. I smiled at her and said thank you for the birthday present.
I was the one that started it long story, I arranged to have her seduced. it was just her 2nd man in her life.
How it happened.
We were teenage sweethearts She was 17 I was 19 she was shy yet ahead of me in puberty I came into it late in life .I came from a very dysfunctional family. I was shy and introverted. I was in the navy home on leave when we met. And that is another story of which I just wrote about in my 2nd book soon to be published. We dated for a few months I never attempted to make a move on her I was to unsure.
Course we kissed and hugged That first kiss was like a bolt of lightning I was stunned. One night after a date we set on her porch she leaned back as I sat on the step I was kissing her my hand on her belly. She took my hand pushed it under her jeans till it went under her panties down into her thick bush it stunned me yet it wa unreal my fingers found her wet pussy and I rubbed her clit course I did not know that was her clit My blood pressure was off scale I protested but she said “No honey I want you too”.
A month later a walk in the park at midnight, On a bench I pulled her dress up over her hips she took her panties off and I got my first pussy,it was quick yet fantastic after that every time I came home on liberty we fucked like rabbits I bought my first car and we parked all over the place she could not get enough as neither could I. She loved to fuck. Still does it is her nymph tendencies.
And so that was the start we married I was 22 she was 20. I’m sure like you we experimented had our date nights watched porn etc. As we grew to spice things up. She was up for it all did it all and wanted it all. She has no inhibitions. She is very secure in her skin and sexuality. I noticed during the porn movies she was very turned on by the cock sizes black and white ones I would tease her and ask her if she could handle one like that or want one. she would always say “ Maybe” my cock is just average 5 inches not a very big head etc. But when I used a big fat dildo on her as I sucked and licked her pussy she would have a big orgasm she orgasms a lot and quick so quick I teased her telling her that she cums from just taking her panties off.
Now, married 25 years she is 45 she has a terrible hysterectomy operation almost lost her. Now medical menopause, passing of life, never sowed her wild oats, fantasy, etc she was more than “Ripe” I knew it I saw it. Understand I love this woman more than life itself and we were a rare couple virgins true soulmates we have identical personalities we love to give rather than receive we never had an argument she is a very special woman everything she touches turns to gold ...... ,housewife career woman and no woman can beat her in the bedroom. But she was going through her own hell she felt barren not a woman. She was a basket case of emotions. She needed more than I could give. and I tried it all. But she never complained. But I knew and could feel her pain, she needed a big boost, she needed another man, yes drastic for sure BUT I knew we were rooted as one. BUT she needed another man to boost her womanhood to do for her what I could not do fulfill her fantasy I knew it was one of having a bigger cock
I looked at a porn film by myself of three - some so I researched it most are the cuck syndrome. Not me, then a female doctors thoughts on the woman's desires after menopause and life passing them by. Etc. Some of the thoughts fit Maryann...some of the suggestions were out of the normal. She said it took a very secure marriage and a rare husband...one that wants his wife to be happy and fulfilled in her life. Page 1
We were teenage sweethearts She was 17 I was 19 she was shy yet ahead of me in puberty I came into it late in life .I came from a very dysfunctional family. I was shy and introverted. I was in the navy home on leave when we met. And that is another story of which I just wrote about in my 2nd book soon to be published. We dated for a few months I never attempted to make a move on her I was to unsure.
Course we kissed and hugged That first kiss was like a bolt of lightning I was stunned. One night after a date we set on her porch she leaned back as I sat on the step I was kissing her my hand on her belly. She took my hand pushed it under her jeans till it went under her panties down into her thick bush it stunned me yet it wa unreal my fingers found her wet pussy and I rubbed her clit course I did not know that was her clit My blood pressure was off scale I protested but she said “No honey I want you too”.
A month later a walk in the park at midnight, On a bench I pulled her dress up over her hips she took her panties off and I got my first pussy,it was quick yet fantastic after that every time I came home on liberty we fucked like rabbits I bought my first car and we parked all over the place she could not get enough as neither could I. She loved to fuck. Still does it is her nymph tendencies.
And so that was the start we married I was 22 she was 20. I’m sure like you we experimented had our date nights watched porn etc. As we grew to spice things up. She was up for it all did it all and wanted it all. She has no inhibitions. She is very secure in her skin and sexuality. I noticed during the porn movies she was very turned on by the cock sizes black and white ones I would tease her and ask her if she could handle one like that or want one. she would always say “ Maybe” my cock is just average 5 inches not a very big head etc. But when I used a big fat dildo on her as I sucked and licked her pussy she would have a big orgasm she orgasms a lot and quick so quick I teased her telling her that she cums from just taking her panties off.
Now, married 25 years she is 45 she has a terrible hysterectomy operation almost lost her. Now medical menopause, passing of life, never sowed her wild oats, fantasy, etc she was more than “Ripe” I knew it I saw it. Understand I love this woman more than life itself and we were a rare couple virgins true soulmates we have identical personalities we love to give rather than receive we never had an argument she is a very special woman everything she touches turns to gold ...... ,housewife career woman and no woman can beat her in the bedroom. But she was going through her own hell she felt barren not a woman. She was a basket case of emotions. She needed more than I could give. and I tried it all. But she never complained. But I knew and could feel her pain, she needed a big boost, she needed another man, yes drastic for sure BUT I knew we were rooted as one. BUT she needed another man to boost her womanhood to do for her what I could not do fulfill her fantasy I knew it was one of having a bigger cock
I looked at a porn film by myself of three - some so I researched it most are the cuck syndrome. Not me, then a female doctors thoughts on the woman's desires after menopause and life passing them by. Etc. Some of the thoughts fit Maryann...some of the suggestions were out of the normal. She said it took a very secure marriage and a rare husband...one that wants his wife to be happy and fulfilled in her life. Page 1
It had to be bold and risky. BUT! I loved her more than lifer itself and I wanted her to whole again. SO! I decided the only way was to have her seduced..That was my plan odd ? probably as I said risky? Sure. So back in my day the only way was through connection magazines. Found at truck stops.
I bought one that location was in the next near by state. I studied them for weeks til I stumbled on an add with a fellows picture what he likes and was open to anything. He fit her type and his cock was fat big head right size for her I thought 8plus inches. Yeah clinical I know but I was sure it would work all I needed was the right fellow. I contacted him his name was Jim.
After a phone call talk I was convinced he could do this he had the charm of an Italian/Irishman he could talk a nun out of her panties. AND after my explanation and sending him a nude pic of Maryann he said “We can do it. She is so damn gorgeous I want to do her bad.” Of course when I told him how she can milk a cock with her pussy like a velvet glove that really got him going.
So we needed to make plans meanwhile Maryann was still down on herself. it was sad to see this once vibrant woman so low. When I explained to Jim about how he had to try and seduce her we made plans I also wanted him to tell me every detail about it. He was all for it he lived just about an hours drive away. He was the consummate stud. And a real gentlemen not just a bull that wanted pussy. We had talked for several weeks about this I got to know him pretty well. He was sympathetic to her plight and genuinely wanted to help, plus he was excited over doing her.
I was lucky as I planned more,felt a bit guilty at times but just felt it had to be done I love her to much to see her like this. Plus my voyeurs side helped. So, I looked at things that were on the calendar a gathering for a dinner at a speakers party opened the door. This was where I would introduce Jim he would show up locate us then come over I would introduce him as an old navy buddy. play it from there I do know it seemed to me unreal and shameful..I questioned myself what the hell was I doing.?
BUT! It was to far gone now Jim was very excited just to meet her. The night came and she looked fantastic as we made our way to the dinner. I told he she was gorgeous looked 10 years younger she just said.”just and old woman”. We sat alone at our table sipping wine.
About 20 minutes I saw Jim heading toward us I was nervous as hell. he looked sharp. I stood up shook his hand introduced him to her as an old navy pal she looked at him and smiled as he took her hand and kissed it asked me how did I ever deserve such a beautiful woman like her. Yes, he knew how to use his charm her eyes lit up. I invited him to dine with us he sat down
For the next hour we had dinner chatted had some wine,he paid a lot of attention to her she laughed at his jokes she was having a grand time .she looked better now then when we came in. He really lavished praise on how gorgeous a woman she was. I could not have picked a better fellow for this risky venture.
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I bought one that location was in the next near by state. I studied them for weeks til I stumbled on an add with a fellows picture what he likes and was open to anything. He fit her type and his cock was fat big head right size for her I thought 8plus inches. Yeah clinical I know but I was sure it would work all I needed was the right fellow. I contacted him his name was Jim.
After a phone call talk I was convinced he could do this he had the charm of an Italian/Irishman he could talk a nun out of her panties. AND after my explanation and sending him a nude pic of Maryann he said “We can do it. She is so damn gorgeous I want to do her bad.” Of course when I told him how she can milk a cock with her pussy like a velvet glove that really got him going.
So we needed to make plans meanwhile Maryann was still down on herself. it was sad to see this once vibrant woman so low. When I explained to Jim about how he had to try and seduce her we made plans I also wanted him to tell me every detail about it. He was all for it he lived just about an hours drive away. He was the consummate stud. And a real gentlemen not just a bull that wanted pussy. We had talked for several weeks about this I got to know him pretty well. He was sympathetic to her plight and genuinely wanted to help, plus he was excited over doing her.
I was lucky as I planned more,felt a bit guilty at times but just felt it had to be done I love her to much to see her like this. Plus my voyeurs side helped. So, I looked at things that were on the calendar a gathering for a dinner at a speakers party opened the door. This was where I would introduce Jim he would show up locate us then come over I would introduce him as an old navy buddy. play it from there I do know it seemed to me unreal and shameful..I questioned myself what the hell was I doing.?
BUT! It was to far gone now Jim was very excited just to meet her. The night came and she looked fantastic as we made our way to the dinner. I told he she was gorgeous looked 10 years younger she just said.”just and old woman”. We sat alone at our table sipping wine.
About 20 minutes I saw Jim heading toward us I was nervous as hell. he looked sharp. I stood up shook his hand introduced him to her as an old navy pal she looked at him and smiled as he took her hand and kissed it asked me how did I ever deserve such a beautiful woman like her. Yes, he knew how to use his charm her eyes lit up. I invited him to dine with us he sat down
For the next hour we had dinner chatted had some wine,he paid a lot of attention to her she laughed at his jokes she was having a grand time .she looked better now then when we came in. He really lavished praise on how gorgeous a woman she was. I could not have picked a better fellow for this risky venture.
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As I read and learn about this lifestyle, I guess that our story is a bit common, in that it happened while on vacation.
The first day on vacation, we met a local guy on the beach outside of our rented house. He was friendly, charming and very attractive. Several drinks later, and way too many for hubby, we ended up back at our house. This was a first for us after 15 years of marriage, but the alcohol and being far from home seemed to loosen all of our inhibitions, particularly hubby's! He was not only encouraging me to be more affectionate with our new, handsome friend, but after he saw our new friend's cock, he acted like a teenage girl who had never seen one before! Hubby was very tipsy and almost sloppy, but I was way to turned-on the stop either of us and I was very curious about how far hubby would/could go himself! I was seeing certain "tendencies". It didn't take long for our friend to remove his swim suit and hubby made the first move... he reached out and touched our friend's cock! I leaned over and touched our friend's chest and we both kissed. I was so horny by now! Hubby tugged at my top and soon the "girls were free". I reached for our friend's cock as he and hubby sucked each of my breasts. My bottom came off a moment later, as did hubby's suit. I leaned down and took our friend's cock into my mouth and in a VERY bold "test" for hubby, invited him to join me. I couldn't believe what was happening, but hubby knelt beside me and he and I shared our friend's cock together. I had never had another cock since we got married and I think it was hubby's first! Vacations and Alcohol, right?
Our new friend was VERY large and thick. Both hubby and I had a challenge, but we didn't do bad. Again, hubby was a little trashed and borderline sloppy, but he hung in there. I reached for hubby's cock to keep him excited and he confessed that he wouldn't last long. I let go to keep him on edge and concentrated on our new friend. Hubby sat back and watched for a minute and then i felt myself being guided onto my back. Our new friend wanted more. I noticed hubby stroking himself as our new friend pushed into my dripping center. Hubby came quickly, then moved across the room to watch.
I had the fuck-of-my-life as hubby slowly ......!
After I had cum three times and after our new friend finally came, he and I helped hubby to our bedroom and then returned to the living room for a nightcap. Yep, we did it again!
I offered our new friend an invitation to stay in our extra bedroom, which he gladly accepted. He asked me to join him but I insisted that I had to check on Hubby.
At around 5:00 am, I tiptoed into our bedroom, but hubby was still asleep. I slid into bed with him and he stirred. I kissed him and reached for his soft dick. He partially opened his eyes and kissed me back. He asked me if "it really happened?" I assured him that it did and that seeing him suck another man was the hottest thing that I had ever seen. His eyes popped open and he began apologizing like crazy! I assured him that i LOVED it. He calmed but then asked if I did more, after he went to ....... I assured him that we did and that it was ME who was so sorry. His dick got hard in my hand as he asked me what we did? I took his hand and guided it down over my tummy and between my thighs. I was squishy and dripping wet! He asked my if that "was Him?" I assured hubby that it was. His eyes shot fully open and his dick got fully hard. He asked again if it really happened. I swung my leg over hubby and easily guided his hard dick up into my creamy opening. I then said "he's all around you now." I then told hubby how hot it was to see him enjoy tasting another man. Hubby shot immediately up into me. I giggled and told hubby that I'm so happy that he likes it. Hubby asked what time our new friend left and I admitted that i invited him to stay in our extra room. He seemed both surprised and happy and asked me if i wanted to go be with our new friend? I said YES and then asked hubby to join us later, after he got some more rest.
I showered and then rejoined our new friend in the guest room.
Hubby did rejoin us, later that afternoon and our new friend stayed with us the entire week! I spent the week enjoying a really big, masterful cock and hubby scratched his bi-curious itch.
Once the vacation ended, we returned home to our normal, vanilla life.... but we both know that we need more of this.
I am a very private person, so it will definitely be an Out-of-Town tryst. Where should we go next? 😉
The first day on vacation, we met a local guy on the beach outside of our rented house. He was friendly, charming and very attractive. Several drinks later, and way too many for hubby, we ended up back at our house. This was a first for us after 15 years of marriage, but the alcohol and being far from home seemed to loosen all of our inhibitions, particularly hubby's! He was not only encouraging me to be more affectionate with our new, handsome friend, but after he saw our new friend's cock, he acted like a teenage girl who had never seen one before! Hubby was very tipsy and almost sloppy, but I was way to turned-on the stop either of us and I was very curious about how far hubby would/could go himself! I was seeing certain "tendencies". It didn't take long for our friend to remove his swim suit and hubby made the first move... he reached out and touched our friend's cock! I leaned over and touched our friend's chest and we both kissed. I was so horny by now! Hubby tugged at my top and soon the "girls were free". I reached for our friend's cock as he and hubby sucked each of my breasts. My bottom came off a moment later, as did hubby's suit. I leaned down and took our friend's cock into my mouth and in a VERY bold "test" for hubby, invited him to join me. I couldn't believe what was happening, but hubby knelt beside me and he and I shared our friend's cock together. I had never had another cock since we got married and I think it was hubby's first! Vacations and Alcohol, right?
Our new friend was VERY large and thick. Both hubby and I had a challenge, but we didn't do bad. Again, hubby was a little trashed and borderline sloppy, but he hung in there. I reached for hubby's cock to keep him excited and he confessed that he wouldn't last long. I let go to keep him on edge and concentrated on our new friend. Hubby sat back and watched for a minute and then i felt myself being guided onto my back. Our new friend wanted more. I noticed hubby stroking himself as our new friend pushed into my dripping center. Hubby came quickly, then moved across the room to watch.
I had the fuck-of-my-life as hubby slowly ......!
After I had cum three times and after our new friend finally came, he and I helped hubby to our bedroom and then returned to the living room for a nightcap. Yep, we did it again!
I offered our new friend an invitation to stay in our extra bedroom, which he gladly accepted. He asked me to join him but I insisted that I had to check on Hubby.
At around 5:00 am, I tiptoed into our bedroom, but hubby was still asleep. I slid into bed with him and he stirred. I kissed him and reached for his soft dick. He partially opened his eyes and kissed me back. He asked me if "it really happened?" I assured him that it did and that seeing him suck another man was the hottest thing that I had ever seen. His eyes popped open and he began apologizing like crazy! I assured him that i LOVED it. He calmed but then asked if I did more, after he went to ....... I assured him that we did and that it was ME who was so sorry. His dick got hard in my hand as he asked me what we did? I took his hand and guided it down over my tummy and between my thighs. I was squishy and dripping wet! He asked my if that "was Him?" I assured hubby that it was. His eyes shot fully open and his dick got fully hard. He asked again if it really happened. I swung my leg over hubby and easily guided his hard dick up into my creamy opening. I then said "he's all around you now." I then told hubby how hot it was to see him enjoy tasting another man. Hubby shot immediately up into me. I giggled and told hubby that I'm so happy that he likes it. Hubby asked what time our new friend left and I admitted that i invited him to stay in our extra room. He seemed both surprised and happy and asked me if i wanted to go be with our new friend? I said YES and then asked hubby to join us later, after he got some more rest.
I showered and then rejoined our new friend in the guest room.
Hubby did rejoin us, later that afternoon and our new friend stayed with us the entire week! I spent the week enjoying a really big, masterful cock and hubby scratched his bi-curious itch.
Once the vacation ended, we returned home to our normal, vanilla life.... but we both know that we need more of this.
I am a very private person, so it will definitely be an Out-of-Town tryst. Where should we go next? 😉
We discussed it and decided to try it. That was over 20 years ago. At first Bob was more into it and I enjoyed it. Not it's definitely more me.
Yes, to summarize our story (above), it was definitely hubby who encouraged me to "seize the day", but it was definitely me who seized all that I could that week, and it's definitely me who is anxiously driving a discrete repeat.
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