We sometimes tend
We sometimes mince words. I'm considered a sissy but I'm not gay, yet if I'm ordered to give my wifes lover a blowjob I will. I do it not because I have a genuine attraction to men, I don't have that particular drive. I do it to show my obedience to my wife and to demonstrate my lack of manhood. Thats different than being gay. To me, being a sissy means surrendering all my manhood,(if I ever had any) and being totally obedient to my wife and submissive to her lovers. I will take him in my ass because I'm too weak and submissive to stop him. She enjoys seeing my weak effeminate nature and comparing this to her lovers desireable manly traits. She enjoys her experiences with him more this way. My humiliation is her aphrodisiac. Some uses of the word sissy might refer to homosexuality but again my brand of it refers to femininity, obedience and lack of manliness( a small ineffectual penis).