Any ankle type of bracelet can look cute and sexy but that does not mean men will hit on you like hungry dogs. We went out a couple times to different bars and some guys started a conversation about my ankle bracelet but neither were the type I'd respond to as a, "Why yes it is. " I've worn it shopping, out to dinner with friends and to our community pool. I think most men are too polite to ask, especially when my husband is usually with me. I'm waiting for some super hot & very well hung frat boy to say hello. Size matters and they have to be at least or larger than my husband. Why bother otherwise?