Absolutely! I meet guys on a few REPUTABLE sites very frequently! I would NEVER consider meeting a "free" member though. A guy who is too cheap to pay for a membership isn't the kind of guy I'm willing to meet.
You would need to read the forum posts from the specific site in order to learn how to put together an APPEALING profile. So many guys join the lifestyle sites who have no game, a pathetic profile and have no idea how to make themselves notable in a positive way. Many others actually (and this is stunningly stupid to me) put together a profile without pics!! Can you imagine that? Guys who are too cheap to pay a few bucks a month for a profile on a reputable site, who expect to meet other guys' wives without so much as even posting a photo of themselves and then put together a profile that contains absolutely zero useful information about themselves and send "one word messages".
Mrs Hotwife