Hi! My wife is cheating on me - UK

I know this is playing with fire, but I also know it’s 100% what I want. I have very few boundaries, the only two are lying and discretion. The rest she can be in complete control. If she wants I will completely submit to her and do whatever she wants, but we are a little way from that stage.

I will start a new post in a few minutes. it took me about 4 hours to write and is a little lengthy so apologies in advance!
If that be the case strike with the iron is hot, you about her affair, she knows you know, so it's time to open up to her.
 
my last post appears to be under moderation because i posted a weblink to another forum (from this site). Im not sure how to reference another forum thread in here, so if you go to the the main forum you will see my recent post titled:

'Need advice to cross the finish line - Part 1'

This contains a detailed write up here - which gives a lot of the background, and also ask for input from you wise people!

Any help you can provide to turn my wife into an open cuckoldress and me into her obedient cuck will be greatly appreciated!
 
There are 3 parts on the long post I have put on the main forum, but part 2 is still under moderator view and is not visible yet .

part 2 contains most of the key information