Her preference for sex types, MFM FMF MF

We definitely want to try MFM first. We just had our first experience last month with another male as he watched. Kind of awkward, but definitely want to experience more. Just want to go slow. Love reading the comments in here. ❤️
would you like to try me,a slutty obedient sissy to please you both?
 

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So when your wife decides to play, and we are just noe exploting this. Does whe just want staright MF sex with a man, a threesome either FMF or MFM or does she like an occasional FF?
Our goal is MFM with 2 men and I watch. We may need to go through a couple steps to get there. I have been trying to work out the details and results have not been so great. But I am a straight man and never recruited a man for a sexual encounter. With this said we are thinking of having her give it a go and not limiting ourselves to a MFM with 2 other guys involved at least not at first.

We decided she can test the waters and see how things go and follow whatever feels right.

What do you guys seek out and are we on the right path?
We have and do swing with other couples, but both prefer MFM, MMFM, etc. She has tried a ff, but would rather have a dick. I too am straight and do the recruiting. She has also gone out on date nights and once I was her and her date's chauffeur.
 
My wife do not want to hear one fantasy about FFM, but MFM or more men serving her is okay, and she gets dripping wet. Shes the Queen, and the only Queen. Im still teasing her, but no luck so far.
 
It is what you want it to be. There is nothing wrong with wanting to just watch her. There are all kinds out there. A little patience and research and you can certainly find what you are looking for.

To answer your question, when we started, we thought we wanted to do the traditional swinger thing and just swap partners. There were times when we switched on and off but mostly it was her and the other guy and me and the other girl. We may have been in the same bed together but typically didn't do a lot of switching back and forth. There were times when the other girl was bi and the girls would also play with each other. My wife is bi also.

The very first couple we hooked up with I found myself wanting to watch my wife and the other guy way more than I was interested in the other lady. I had to be aware of paying attention to her so that she would also enjoy the experience but found myself frequently distracted by what was going on with my wife. I found this was the case most of the times we hooked up with other couples.

As we became more experienced we became a little more selective with choosing couples. As we did, it started to become more difficult to find a four way connection. There were a number of times where I was into the girl but my wife wasn't into the guy, or vice versa. Or maybe one of the other couple wasn't into one of us. It just became a little more work finding the right couple. Or sometimes having 4 people involved made scheduling a little more difficult with most having kids or jobs. We found with couples synching up schedules was more of a challenge.

After a stretch where we weren't very lucky with couples, we had a single guy reach out to us on one of the swinger websites we used. Single guys reached out often but we just ignored them. This time, it sparked her interest so we began to communicate with him. A short while later we were meeting for dinner and drinks which led to a hotel room and our first MFM. It was amazing. I was able to focus on my wife and seeing her be pleasured and give pleasure was exhilarating. She also enjoyed performing for me. We ended up meeting this same guy regularly for about 6 months before deciding on trying with another single guy. We found it much easier, less messy, and, as it turns out, more fun for us both.

We still occasionally would meet couples but our preferred arrangement is with a single guy. Oh, and we have always been same room. She feels safer with me in the room and doesn't think she could relax enough to enjoy it if I wasn't there. For me, I am a visual person so I like to see with my own eyes.

I hope that answered your question. Feel free to ask me anything. I love sharing the stuff. You can DM if you would like.
I can fully understand prefering watching your wife to fucking the other woman. The trouble is that when another woman is there it would be rude to leave her out.