Hello all. We have been in the lifestyle for about 2 years now, although with a few longer breaks, so really we have only been active about 8 months. We have enjoyed our time, and Rachel has really found her stride. I love to see it and I love to see her embracing her sexuality!
My question is how to deal with jealousy, but not the kind that you would think when considering this lifestyle. I’m not really jealous of the sex, outside of the tension and apprehension that comes when waiting/watching (which is fun and I enjoy it). I’ve recently realized that I’m jealous of the attention.
That sounds weird, but I mean that I miss being desired and feeling sexy because others are attracted to me. It’s been so wonderful watching her feel the NRE and feeling wanted and desired. I just miss that feeling for myself. Does that make sense? Does anyone else have experience with this?
Looking for thoughtful responses, not just fantasy based answers.
My question is how to deal with jealousy, but not the kind that you would think when considering this lifestyle. I’m not really jealous of the sex, outside of the tension and apprehension that comes when waiting/watching (which is fun and I enjoy it). I’ve recently realized that I’m jealous of the attention.
That sounds weird, but I mean that I miss being desired and feeling sexy because others are attracted to me. It’s been so wonderful watching her feel the NRE and feeling wanted and desired. I just miss that feeling for myself. Does that make sense? Does anyone else have experience with this?
Looking for thoughtful responses, not just fantasy based answers.
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