Help a brother out!~

[Chemistry4]

Hey everyone!!

First, I'm so happy to have found a community with like minded people. Second, I need your assistance in helping identifying where I fall...

I am a married man who fantasizes only about having his wife get eaten out or having her tits sucked simultaneously, by me and another guy. Basically, I don't want her to have sex or perform oral sex on anyone else.. I just want her to get eaten out while I suck her tits or kiss her or have both me and him eat her out vaginally and anally at the same time.

Now, the thing is... I'm trying to figure out if there is already a term for this like there is for everything else out there. I cant find any relatable content/vids or anything else online with this specific kink.

So help me out... is there a term for people like me? ... because all I want is for her to be pleased orally (she is on board with it too) - no sex, no bj.

 

[goodhubby]

Hey everyone!!

First, I'm so happy to have found a community with like minded people. Second, I need your assistance in helping identifying where I fall...

I am a married man who fantasizes only about having his wife get eaten out or having her tits sucked simultaneously, by me and another guy. Basically, I don't want her to have sex or perform oral sex on anyone else.. I just want her to get eaten out while I suck her tits or kiss her or have both me and him eat her out vaginally and anally at the same time.

Now, the thing is... I'm trying to figure out if there is already a term for this like there is for everything else out there. I cant find any relatable content/vids or anything else online with this specific kink.

So help me out... is there a term for people like me? ... because all I want is for her to be pleased orally (she is on board with it too) - no sex, no bj.

Will you suck the bull while he’s eating her out?

 

[Couple4MFM]

When we first began our journey into the Lifestyle we had no idea how to classify ourselves with what we desired or were into at the time. We would go to clubs and people would ask or tell us they were into soft swap, full swap, hotwife, cuckold, and more.

Over time we have done almost everything we have imagined. Some we have enjoyed or liked and some we have determined to never do again. But, ultimately, at the end of the day, we find we are more open to going with the flow at the moment versus trying to confine our activity into a label or box.

We have a couple we consider good lifestyle friends. They define themselves as 'soft swap'. At first, we would each undress and make love to our own wife, but on the same bed together. There was no contact between any of us other than with our own partner. As time progressed we were out to dinner one night and began discussing the option of us guys having oral sex with the other wife, limited to pussy eating, anal eating, and breast sucking. No cock sucking or kissing. That worked for a while and they seemed content. Then one evening, we were all having foreplay when the other lady said she thought it would be hot to watch my wife suck her husband's cock one time. A minute later my wife had her husband's cock in her mouth and as the other lady watched she grasped my cock and began to suck me.

A few months later, we had all rented a cabin on a Lake for a weekend. We had a lot of fun with this couple and our get-togethers often did not have any sexual activity. Trips like the cabin weekend were usually totally platonic. On the second night of our outing, they asked about how we dealt with the emotions of being a 'full swap' couple and having full sex with other people. As we talked they confided they wanted to try it, but could not stand the sight of seeing the other with someone else. The wive's talked and came up with a solution of us both spending the night with the other partner in private rooms. Since we had a two-bedroom cabin this worked well. That night the other lady was like a tiger. It was her first time having sex with any man other than her husband. She sucked my dick, she wanted me inside her and even wanted me to cum inside her. She could not get enough that night. I could hear my wife and the other guy in the room down the hall and it was also his first time with another woman.

They still label themselves as "soft swap" but we have had many nights of fun with each other's partner in separate rooms over the years.

I would not try to confine your desires or fun into a label, be open to enjoying what you desire and want at the moment, and live without any regret. Always talk things through and allow each other to have fun.

 

[Fazeldex]

When we first began our journey into the Lifestyle we had no idea how to classify ourselves with what we desired or were into at the time. We would go to clubs and people would ask or tell us they were into soft swap, full swap, hotwife, cuckold, and more.

Over time we have done almost everything we have imagined. Some we have enjoyed or liked and some we have determined to never do again. But, ultimately, at the end of the day, we find we are more open to going with the flow at the moment versus trying to confine our activity into a label or box.

We have a couple we consider good lifestyle friends. They define themselves as 'soft swap'. At first, we would each undress and make love to our own wife, but on the same bed together. There was no contact between any of us other than with our own partner. As time progressed we were out to dinner one night and began discussing the option of us guys having oral sex with the other wife, limited to pussy eating, anal eating, and breast sucking. No cock sucking or kissing. That worked for a while and they seemed content. Then one evening, we were all having foreplay when the other lady said she thought it would be hot to watch my wife suck her husband's cock one time. A minute later my wife had her husband's cock in her mouth and as the other lady watched she grasped my cock and began to suck me.

A few months later, we had all rented a cabin on a Lake for a weekend. We had a lot of fun with this couple and our get-togethers often did not have any sexual activity. Trips like the cabin weekend were usually totally platonic. On the second night of our outing, they asked about how we dealt with the emotions of being a 'full swap' couple and having full sex with other people. As we talked they confided they wanted to try it, but could not stand the sight of seeing the other with someone else. The wive's talked and came up with a solution of us both spending the night with the other partner in private rooms. Since we had a two-bedroom cabin this worked well. That night the other lady was like a tiger. It was her first time having sex with any man other than her husband. She sucked my dick, she wanted me inside her and even wanted me to cum inside her. She could not get enough that night. I could hear my wife and the other guy in the room down the hall and it was also his first time with another woman.

They still label themselves as "soft swap" but we have had many nights of fun with each other's partner in separate rooms over the years.

I would not try to confine your desires or fun into a label, be open to enjoying what you desire and want at the moment, and live without any regret. Always talk things through and allow each other to have fun.

That made my dick hard

 

[JMNBABE]

You need a sex doll, not a human woman with needs and desires. Your limits are silly........she's not your sex toy there to please you on your level only.

J (the wife)

 

[krl11]

Hey everyone!!

First, I'm so happy to have found a community with like minded people. Second, I need your assistance in helping identifying where I fall...

I am a married man who fantasizes only about having his wife get eaten out or having her tits sucked simultaneously, by me and another guy. Basically, I don't want her to have sex or perform oral sex on anyone else.. I just want her to get eaten out while I suck her tits or kiss her or have both me and him eat her out vaginally and anally at the same time.

Now, the thing is... I'm trying to figure out if there is already a term for this like there is for everything else out there. I cant find any relatable content/vids or anything else online with this specific kink.

So help me out... is there a term for people like me? ... because all I want is for her to be pleased orally (she is on board with it too) - no sex, no bj.

Yes we can talk. dm please

 

[dickhurtz]

When we first began our journey into the Lifestyle we had no idea how to classify ourselves with what we desired or were into at the time. We would go to clubs and people would ask or tell us they were into soft swap, full swap, hotwife, cuckold, and more.

Over time we have done almost everything we have imagined. Some we have enjoyed or liked and some we have determined to never do again. But, ultimately, at the end of the day, we find we are more open to going with the flow at the moment versus trying to confine our activity into a label or box.

We have a couple we consider good lifestyle friends. They define themselves as 'soft swap'. At first, we would each undress and make love to our own wife, but on the same bed together. There was no contact between any of us other than with our own partner. As time progressed we were out to dinner one night and began discussing the option of us guys having oral sex with the other wife, limited to pussy eating, anal eating, and breast sucking. No cock sucking or kissing. That worked for a while and they seemed content. Then one evening, we were all having foreplay when the other lady said she thought it would be hot to watch my wife suck her husband's cock one time. A minute later my wife had her husband's cock in her mouth and as the other lady watched she grasped my cock and began to suck me.

A few months later, we had all rented a cabin on a Lake for a weekend. We had a lot of fun with this couple and our get-togethers often did not have any sexual activity. Trips like the cabin weekend were usually totally platonic. On the second night of our outing, they asked about how we dealt with the emotions of being a 'full swap' couple and having full sex with other people. As we talked they confided they wanted to try it, but could not stand the sight of seeing the other with someone else. The wive's talked and came up with a solution of us both spending the night with the other partner in private rooms. Since we had a two-bedroom cabin this worked well. That night the other lady was like a tiger. It was her first time having sex with any man other than her husband. She sucked my dick, she wanted me inside her and even wanted me to cum inside her. She could not get enough that night. I could hear my wife and the other guy in the room down the hall and it was also his first time with another woman.

They still label themselves as "soft swap" but we have had many nights of fun with each other's partner in separate rooms over the years.

I would not try to confine your desires or fun into a label, be open to enjoying what you desire and want at the moment, and live without any regret. Always talk things through and allow each other to have fun.

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