I apologize if it seemed like I ghosted you. I'm sure it seems that way to others as well. I get so many messages it's impossible to keep track of them all. I try to respond to all of them but I'm sure I miss some. It's not uncommon to be chatting with 5 or 6 guys at the same time.
I appreciate and respect your desire for condom usage. I've met guys who insist on using them but it's almost always a one and done thing. Why? It's for selfish reasons. It's a major rush for me when I feel a man unload inside me and it often triggers an immediate orgasm. We're all in this for the enjoyment of sex. Quite simply when a man wears a condom fucking me a great deal of that enjoyment is missing. I'm baby safe and get tested very regularly so my choice is no condom. If I feel there is cause for concern then the guy won't be putting his cock to use on me. I've refused many guys for this reason and to date I've never had a problem.