Now she's got you, not being a dick, and she can start to use the other guys just for their dicks, so it doesn't matter what they're like!
How long have you been married?
Happily married
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How long have you been married?
We got married at the beginning of this year.
Kachionxxx500
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Get her to watch cuckold porn videos with you. While both of you are at it, you can casually remark that you like watching porn where the woman being fucked is married. That it turns you on thinking of your wife being fucked. That you don't know why you feel that way but can't help it and is at peace with the feeling. After that day be sure to make a ritual of always watching cuckold porn. It may turn her on.
Thank you for the suggestion, we’ve never tried watching porn together so I’m unsure if it’s something she’d be into.
The picture is become more clear. She never saw this old bf as marriage material, just someone to hang out with while she seeks a more attractive man. It took her a long time and she continued to stay with him even while she was cheating. The "dick" was never going to be relationship material either and she knew that soon enough. But she enjoyed having a fuck buddy AND a guy to come home to. Maybe to give creampies to also! Having two men is a huge turn on for a lot of women. Did he find out she was cheating and that's what started the fight?
Saying you felt bad for the boyfriend of your wife's friend set you back a few steps whether you realized it or not. That's not what she wanted to hear, You could have said, "maybe your friend is just getting her wildness out of her system, some women do that even while in a relationship. She'll probably go stay with him anyway."
If I was you I'd let her "develop" you. Let her continue to cheat while you aid her by not obstructing her nights out or taking a jealous fit even if she comes home late. Continue to love and dote on her. She if she'll lead you to where she wants YOU to be. For me, that's super hot when the wife leads.
Saying you felt bad for the boyfriend of your wife's friend set you back a few steps whether you realized it or not. That's not what she wanted to hear, You could have said, "maybe your friend is just getting her wildness out of her system, some women do that even while in a relationship. She'll probably go stay with him anyway."
If I was you I'd let her "develop" you. Let her continue to cheat while you aid her by not obstructing her nights out or taking a jealous fit even if she comes home late. Continue to love and dote on her. She if she'll lead you to where she wants YOU to be. For me, that's super hot when the wife leads.
I think you’ve hit the nail on the head there, she finally had enough and told her ex she wanted to leave him, I think he only found out she was cheating after they’d broke up, she is obviously very good at hiding it. Maybe once she was single the excitement wore off with the lad from the gym.
If she tells me anymore about her friends cheating or being naughty while they’re out I’ll be much more positive.
That sounds like a good plan actually, I like that and totally agree if that’s what she’s doing then it’s extremely hot and a huge turn on. I never get jealous, I just don’t feel any jealously.
Without actually telling her about my fantasy, does anyone have any advice on how I can increase the chances of her cheating on me on Saturday, I want her to embrace any good looking lads who approach her. The sad thing is I’m picking her up at the end of the night so either she goes back to some guy’s then back to town or fucks someone in a toilet.
Just be honest and open about what you like and let it sit with her for a while.
My wife has just been to get her pussy waxed and fake tan, I know this isn’t for me, it’s for Saturday night.
Just tell her you’d like to lick her pussy clean when she comes home and the dirtier it is the better 👌🏻
The sex ban is going well, it’s been hard work and took a lot of self discipline. Mind she hasn’t made any moves on me either so maybe she’s saving herself.
This is an awesome thread and very similar to my situation. I don't want to hi-jack his awesome thread so I'll be brief. My current wife (my second), before I met her, had an eight year relationship with a guy who she cheated on regularly. Like once a week. After it ended she got with me a few years later and we talked and I told her how my first wife cheated on me a lot and yet I didn't divorce her, she divorced me, oh and later regretted it and tried to get me back. Too bad, I was already crazy in love with my new woman. Anyway, my second wife later told me how because I never expressed anger about my first wife cheating on me she felt safe in telling me she cheated on her bf for years. She openly admitted it to me just like the OP's wife here has told him.
She obviously knew I was "cuck material" and she wanted to experience the fun of cheating again and with me she knew she could, which is why she pursued me so strongly, even being the first to suggest we get married. Some women can love a guy and still have crave the excitement of cheating. The OP and me have married the same type of woman! Life is never dull!
She obviously knew I was "cuck material" and she wanted to experience the fun of cheating again and with me she knew she could, which is why she pursued me so strongly, even being the first to suggest we get married. Some women can love a guy and still have crave the excitement of cheating. The OP and me have married the same type of woman! Life is never dull!
I love this reply, thank you! It’s good to get an idea of how people with a similar mindset are dealing with this. I love the idea that cheating on me gives her a huge thrill.
So my wife’s plans have changed, she’s going out for day drinks with her friends then to a festival this evening. I still think this is a great opportunity for her to cheat.
Even better, she'll have been drinking all afternoon and then feeling the buzz of people pressing in against her at the music.
Very exciting! I’m praying for a text saying she’s staying at a friend’s house
So I’m deadly serious, her location has changed already, she’s at some flats about 30 mins from the festival! I don’t know on any friends of hers in that area. Surely this can only be one thing…
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