Had a first last night in chastity

[sub2femdom]

I've been wearing my cage more and more often lately. I bought a Vice brand cage, and it fits well. I've worn the cage almost daily for the last two weeks (at night, not 24 hours), whereas I used to only put it on for an hour or two on very rare occasions.

Last night, I caged up and then got horny of course. I put on some cuckold chastity porn, and got REALLY turned on. I found a really great chastity cuckold cleanup video and then played with my nipples and used a mini-vibrator on the base of the cage. It just got more and more intense, I was transfixed on the 5-minute cleanup part of the video, and replayed it a few times over, all the while tweaking my nipples and slipping deeper and deeper into euphoria.

Then I felt it.. I pulled the vibrator away and my caged cock twitched and started drooling cum, I was having anal contractions rather than penile, and I came a lot more than usual. Even after a couple of minutes I was still having decreasing contractions every 20-30 seconds and a tiny bit more would come out.

I was still horny, so I bent down and licked up all the cum off my desk.

It was a really good experience. Damn I need a mistress !

 

[Derekthecuck]

Are you caged during the day?

 

[sub2femdom]

No, I do it in secret. My wife isn't into any of this lifestyle.

 

[Wannabe77]

My girl draws am thinking about getting this one permanent and then rewarded with being collared

 

[Subthoughts]

I've been wearing my cage more and more often lately. I bought a Vice brand cage, and it fits well. I've worn the cage almost daily for the last two weeks (at night, not 24 hours), whereas I used to only put it on for an hour or two on very rare occasions.

Last night, I caged up and then got horny of course. I put on some cuckold chastity porn, and got REALLY turned on. I found a really great chastity cuckold cleanup video and then played with my nipples and used a mini-vibrator on the base of the cage. It just got more and more intense, I was transfixed on the 5-minute cleanup part of the video, and replayed it a few times over, all the while tweaking my nipples and slipping deeper and deeper into euphoria.

Then I felt it.. I pulled the vibrator away and my caged cock twitched and started drooling cum, I was having anal contractions rather than penile, and I came a lot more than usual. Even after a couple of minutes I was still having decreasing contractions every 20-30 seconds and a tiny bit more would come out.

I was still horny, so I bent down and licked up all the cum off my desk.

It was a really good experience. Damn I need a mistress !

Where to find such Mistress?

 

[sub2femdom]

You can find them in swinger groups and through fetlife groups. You could pay for it too, but I have no idea how someone would go about that. I wish I had time for a mistress, but for now I just fantasize and wish I had one lol, maybe in a year or two my life will calm down 🙂

 

[coastalkid]

I've been wondering how I might approach chastity with my wife. She's caught me plenty of times masturbating to porn. She never used to before, but lately she teases me about having a small cock. Most of the time we are at our beach house alone now. So, we have total privacy. I need a good way to approach her on the idea and see if that sparks up something for her.

 

[coastalkid]

Sub2femdom, is your wife into anything? I don't mean that in a mean way. My wife has taken years to start to share some dirty talk in bed and other little things. It has been a terrible source of frustration and a test in patience but our sex life is not nearly as boring. I've been pulling for her to come along and I think if I approach it right we could do chastity maybe.

 

[Subthoughts]

I've been wondering how I might approach chastity with my wife. She's caught me plenty of times masturbating to porn. She never used to before, but lately she teases me about having a small cock. Most of the time we are at our beach house alone now. So, we have total privacy. I need a good way to approach her on the idea and see if that sparks up something for her.

Maybe when she teases you about your small cock you can raise the idea of cage to make it smaller

 

[sub2femdom]

Sub2femdom, is your wife into anything? I don't mean that in a mean way. My wife has taken years to start to share some dirty talk in bed and other little things. It has been a terrible source of frustration and a test in patience but our sex life is not nearly as boring. I've been pulling for her to come along and I think if I approach it right we could do chastity maybe.

My wife unfortunately has lost interest in sex with me. We don't have a sexual relationship, but a dead bedroom. I've tried to 'reawaken' her many ways. The kinky stuff just doesn't interest her, and I think on some level my desire to do these things has pushed her away. There's no way to fix it, I mean once you let that cat out of the bag, there's no putting it back in.

There are other variables at play also, such as medications she takes also sapping her sex drive, as well as intimacy issues between us. Our home life is normal, boring. Seems like we both know it but just don't talk about it. Neither of us really has any reason to leave. Our love life is dead, but we're roommates who at least know how to live with each other.

After someone flirted with her and got her motor running, she approached me about it and I did encourage her to date the guy, but even that became frustrating for both of us. I wanted to approach it as a couple, whether I watched, or joined in, or played cuckold didn't matter to me, I just wanted to be a part of it. She wanted to go out on a date and didn't want me to be a part of the sex at all. She had no interest in the cuckold aspect of it, she just wanted someone else for romance and sex, and decidedly not me being a part of it.

So the last time I had sex with her was twice during that time the other guy was flirting with her, and not since then, that was back in summer 2020.

This is why I just go to fetish parties and meet and play with people who actually want to play. I gave up on the wife years ago, I give it a shot when she 'awakens' about once every 2-5 years, but fuck that ...... I'm not waiting around anymore 🙂

 

[sub2femdom]

It's interesting that you mention that you accept half of the blame. When your sex life was waning, did she get increasingly angry/frustrated during sex? Did she communicate anything useful to you back then?